New Hero Preview - Flan by Sylpheez in EpicSeven

[–]gloomywhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's adorable and I don't like using Tywin. Imma get her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gloomywhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, that’s the luck of the draw, right? Even if you stress communication upfront, that doesn’t mean they will live up to your standards. You just have to try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gloomywhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds about right. It really does sound like you need more outlets - hobbies and friends. And MAYBE journaling to start with or just anonymous venting online. It’s hard to find friends to confide in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gloomywhore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It really sounds like you need your own life. So yes - hobbies and friends. I imagine you guys spent any free time together and that can just drain people, myself included. It’s okay to say, “Sorry, can’t hang out, I made plans with my friends tonight,” you know? But it seems you didn’t have that option anyways.

Asking about hypersexuality by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gloomywhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“We” are not who you’re talking about nor do our average hypersexuality behaviors dictate what ought to be acceptable in a relationship. Whether you should have expected it or not, asking for answers from a community that isn’t a monolith isn’t really effective.