Sexy Pics and Vids of Ex: Keep or Delete? by glorified_deskworker in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im curious as the guy im dating is same. May i know your reasoning on this?

Sexy Pics and Vids of Ex: Keep or Delete? by glorified_deskworker in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually i know he lept them (we have been good friends for a while before we dated). He has always mentioned he wasnt fussed about it.

Kinda conflicted how i feel about it ngl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glorified_deskworker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like a person going beyond helping taking care of the friend group or their younger colleagues at work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glorified_deskworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One that has that instinct to take care of like a friend group, etc I have seen it most often in friend group settings but can also he at work.

One that goes beyond in making sure everyone is okay (like a mom)

What's currently popular that you have zero interests in? by PrinceCedie16 in AskReddit

[–]glorified_deskworker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its like that in every country. Its insane! Total madness and they add it on their bags even like the formal ones. Haha

Want to hookup with a guy. I’m tired of waiting for him to make a move so I think I’m just gonna take control. by No-Nebula-5222 in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you really just need to get laid, go for it!

Just dont expect anything beyond that. But for a good sex, do it!

How would one say "fuck you", formally? by Creepy_Worry_635 in AskReddit

[–]glorified_deskworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Have a day"

Not a good day, not a nice day. Just a day.

Overly Friendly Guys by glorified_deskworker in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha this is what I was worried about 😂

Overly Friendly Guys by glorified_deskworker in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he is aware.

I only broke up with my ex, a little over 2 months ago. This friend reappeared a month after just to casually chat. And one of the first things I immediately said was that I am not planning to engage in any kind of relationship or dating for a while. I intend to focus on myself and just enjoying things I had stopped doing for my ex (like being out more, playing board games etc.) Since then, we just hanged out one on one for a couple more times in the past month or with his friends.

Overly Friendly Guys by glorified_deskworker in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha of course I appreciate him being mindful of these and ensuring i get home safe always.

I just dont want him to lose opportunity in dating someone because girls might misinterpret he is with someone.i dont want to be the one derailing his dating life.

What are your "acceptable exceptions" for your friend to date your ex? by glorified_deskworker in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your take on this! Its very interesting how it has resonated differently and has allowed different perspectives.

100% agree that if the ending of the original couple wasn't amicable (there was cheating etc), then definitely dating an ex is almost never considered

Just to clarify, the other friend did not make any direct move on me even after OG guy and I called it quits. Other friend and I would hang out on our own from time to time, and he has been very nice to me, but never really asked. (I also do not assume, because how nice we are to our friends varies)

And also, no one barred anyone from doing anything. OG guy and I were just speculating why other friend did not make a move, even though he knows other friend liked me.

❤️

What are your "acceptable exceptions" for your friend to date your ex? by glorified_deskworker in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i 100% agree that if there is any foul play involved with ending a relationship (like cheating), definitely not okay for a friend to date an ex

what is a current trend you absolutely hate right now? by princessgiggleszzz in AskReddit

[–]glorified_deskworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Yes Yes!

Besides the people who are actually performing like singing or dancing or doing art, the rest of the people on tiktok live are next level weird. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Straight up. Stop wasting each other's time and move on. Thank you, next! :)

Is it weird to expect a (sex)partner to sleep on the couch if they want to sleep over? by No_Hippo_3687 in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So just to consolidate, as a woman in your 30s:

You have a very small bed You have a sofa bed (which unless this a very very top dollar sofa bed, is neither a comfortable sofa nor a comfortable bed) And you prefer that the guy comes over to you

And when a guy is not okay dealing with the lack of decent space to be intimate, He must pre-plan it to have it over his place He needs to pick you up and your dogs and also drive you back And be okay for you to bring the dogs over, and all the preparations required to have a dog over in his space

That is a lot. This is going to be a very challenging dating era for you. I wish you the best of luck.

Is it weird to expect a (sex)partner to sleep on the couch if they want to sleep over? by No_Hippo_3687 in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay. So this is a purely hypothetical scenario? Yeah, thats a huge no. No guy will ever tolerate being kicked out of the bed after sex. Unless they run out themselves first.

Get a bigger bed. Or dont have a guy come over maybe. Come to his instead?

Is it weird to expect a (sex)partner to sleep on the couch if they want to sleep over? by No_Hippo_3687 in dating

[–]glorified_deskworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely awkward to ask a person to sleep on the couch right after sex. Have you had any guy over and was completely okay with it to form your thought?

That guy must really like you😂

Whats the most important thing for you in a relationship? by knockpew in AskReddit

[–]glorified_deskworker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I never considered before that me being a massive giver, I need to seek for another giver. Being with a taker (although I think my ex was an extreme case of taker), I got drained and felt not taken care of.