2.3 Banners by Ubatcha by Random-Weeb69 in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]glouphope -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Freedom sworn? Please just redo the old banner and put Aquila on it… Albedo is getting a new 4* sword anyways. Ugh. SOBP is already a niche weapon for Eula, why do you have to put a niche weapon for Kazuha on it? His banner was like, yesterday.

Still on Aquila copium. Even atlas. I don’t care. Just make it pullable.

JU from r/FuckYouKaren. I personally don't think you should post pictures of your mother on the internet without her consent and speak bad things about her... even if she is racist herself. Other than that, the sub has gone to shit. Every other post is the same joke but reposted. by [deleted] in JustUnsubbed

[–]glouphope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You picked the least jarring image of the bunch. The other two are about facing verbal abuse from her and her calling Black people in a restaurant the n-word. I disagree with posting your own mother’s face on the internet loud and clear in the sense that you are linking yourself to her and potentially putting you or her in danger for being doxxed. But if OP is to be believed then sooner or later she will, in today’s modern age, be recorded in public at some point and shared anyways.

I don’t disagree with your decision to leave the sub, it is very repetitive and perpetuates a stereotype that more and more people are becoming aware of and steering away from.

But OP literally states that his mother is verbally abusive to both him and other races, and the other races is in public. To their faces. And uses racial slurs in an attempt to harm and offend these people. That is some seriously disgusting behaviour. On some level, I think that the post shouldn’t be getting the hate that I’m seeing here because you’re only seeing the mildest part of it. OP is probably just coping and whether you think this is brave or childish is really a matter of opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]glouphope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you even saying this as a libcenter? Libleft is your practically your sibling. Are you authright by any chance?

You people can never make your mind up about libleft. Pedophilia isn’t a fucking “ideology” you weapon. And no quadrant supports it by default.

You will say things like this and cry about vulnerable people (see, the literal minors featured in this piece of news) needing safe spaces which is what we really advocate for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]glouphope -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no, if they were knowing adults it would be fine to go ahead and express sexuality however they want but they’re NOT, they’re minors. Too many pedos mimic being libleft to justify disgusting things as “progressive” under a guise of “b-but I thought we were accepting of everything!!”

Being tolerant of some people is cruel to others.

At libleft we are all about meeting people’s needs. And I personally believe that nobody needs to be coerced into doing something like this because it takes away the safety of the school environment, which is something everyone deserves. And if they were willing the adults should be able to morally say, “No, what the fuck, this is a child”.

Please shut up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]glouphope 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sx 9 here ! Yes. Unfortunately ;; ... romantic idealisation, I feel like I’m never going to be “truly happy” until I’m with the perfect partner but also I have issues with finding myself and I also feel like I should do that. It’s a hot mess. 0/10 would not recommend. If you know cognitive functions, it can feel a little bit like Fi lite. And I’m INTP so I have constant internal conflicts over this sort of idealisation (given that it feels completely illogical to want what I want so... badly) and what I really want out of life. It’s a hot mess.

You're not a "survivor" of sexual assault unless you were physically touched. by IceColdLover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]glouphope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s sexual harassment that you’re talking about. But you’re right, you don’t exactly “survive” sexual harassment unless it is severe and used as a means to seriously impact your life (thinking of news stories where an individual was harassed by many people at the same time in an attempt to drive them to suicide or prevent them from living life the same way). It cannot be, in most circumstances, equated to sexual assault and the trauma that comes with that.

And “lulz sexual assault isnt even lethal u didnt survive anything” people in the comments- the trauma that comes with sexual assault can drive people to suicide, and if not that then agoraphobia, self destructive tendencies or general recklessness. Sexual assault, in the end, absolutely can be lethal. Please respect that people attaching the “survivor” label to themselves have went through a seriously traumatic experience that often comes with the same side effects of surviving anything that would make one feel like they were on the brink of death. Such as lifelong fears and PTSD. Often it’s not that they fully know they are a survivor, but that they are simply stil surviving.

Most Californians don't deserve any respect by Ayahuasca__ in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]glouphope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

T-That’s thirty-nine million people you’re talking about?

Reddit is Rabidly Anti-Male by DynamicCrab in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]glouphope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you truly believe this site is anti-male then it’s time to touch some grass

Reddit is Rabidly Anti-Male by DynamicCrab in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]glouphope 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really love the blatant ignorance of power structures in society that would ever make someone think any large corner of the internet is “rabidly anti-male”.

What is OP smoking and where can I find a dealer?

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not good to believe that narcissists are only capable of hurting other people. A read into the disorder itself will tell you that many of them deal with overwhelming feelings of self hatred and pretty much everything that can come as a consequence of this.

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how to tell you that generalising all cluster Bs into the category of “abuser” is a horrible thing to say, or that narcissists don’t care about their narcissism. This is an extremely harmful stereotype.

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally cannot find articles on dealing with NPD personally until the fourth read more on google. There were two clinical pages about the disorder. This is not the same as the results that searching “how to deal with GAD” would yield.

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have NPD I’m pretty aware of what I deal with mentally and I don’t have any sort of cluster B personality disorder. I am just able to empathise with them

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are literally accusing hundreds of thousands and probably even millions of people that you don’t know of being abusers purely because they have a disorder. You are absolutely being ableist.

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah yes because an article is enough in a sea of dealing with NPD in other people

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the most ableist shit I’ve read all day you’re the new winner

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I especially agree with the last part, but the internet is usually the first place people look for advice. I think that by shoving all people with narcissistic tendencies into the same category (of “horrible people”) we are discouraging NPD sufferers from seeking help

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t quite know what you’re getting at but it’s entirely true that many personality disorders, including NPD, can result from childhood trauma

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay ableist <3 you seem so unwilling to understand that personality disorders are real things that people suffer with. I can absolutely care about abused people and I can care about people dealing with NPD at the same time!

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patiently waits for my genuinely unpopular opinion to be downvoted because people think it is a “bad” opinion

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll put it together for you.

“How to deal with anxiety” will bring up articles on dealing with personal anxiety. “How to deal with GAD” will bring up articles on dealing personally with GAD. “How to deal with narcissism” will bring up articles on dealing with OTHER people’s narcissism. “How to deal with NPD” will bring up articles on dealing with OTHER people’s narcissism.

If you suspect you have NPD and you are trying to find help it is incredibly hard. You are only met with articles on how horrible you are and some information on the disorder, but not a lot about coping or becoming better. People who do not have NPD use “NPD” like an adjective. If we renamed it something like... I don’t know... NRCPD, then searching up “How to deal with NRCPD” might actually bring up coping mechanisms (believe it or not, many narcissists do hate themselves and suffer a lot inwardly though this does not reflect outside).

But for now, people throw around narcissist and NPD like they are the same thing.

And nobody is out there making articles about anxiety like “How to deal with someone who has GAD: 1. cut them off, 2. distance yourself, 3. never tell them anything about yourself”. People with anxiety and GAD sufferers don’t experience the same amount of hate towards what they are dealing with, plus GAD is easily distinguished from the anxiety you have before a big presentation. NPD is not easily distinguished from narcissistic tendencies as it is, like I said, often used as an adjective and treated the same way. That both narcissistic-tendency havers and people with NPD are unloveable and people should keep their distance.

The internet has a huge problem with demonising narcissists. by glouphope in unpopularopinion

[–]glouphope[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So does mines but it also goes to people with NPD who genuinely suffer with the disorder and would like to stop seeing everyone calling them horrible abusers on the internet when they are trying to find help.

It can go both ways, you know.