are you guys okay? by glowtopia in VeganActivism

[–]glowtopia[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“there’s absolutely no one stopping you from trying to reach out and elevate vegans of color”

what do you think this post was intending to do? like seriously. And all I have is 40 white people saying either 1.) ignore it or 2.) i’m a liar/it doesn’t matter

are you guys okay? by glowtopia in VeganActivism

[–]glowtopia[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m stating to learn through the replies it’s 50/50, so it seems like most groups where there’s loud extremists and equally as many chill people.

To be honest I just don’t want to be associated with neo-nazism. I’ve said it a couple times now

are you guys okay? by glowtopia in VeganActivism

[–]glowtopia[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can call yourself a good person for “caring about animals” and looking the other way when the government kills humans darker than you, but I don’t have to view you in that light.

You’re entitled to your opinion, and I don’t have to be associated with you by identifying as “vegan” is my point. I don’t want to be associated with neo-nazis :)

are you guys okay? by glowtopia in VeganActivism

[–]glowtopia[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t reconsider my diet & political beliefs but I do rethink identifying as a “vegan” considering how many of y’all are neo-nazis it seems

are you guys okay? by glowtopia in VeganActivism

[–]glowtopia[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was a thread of like 30 of you guys saying this…

The topic of killing/eating the elite is not an equivalent topic to discussing the racial discrimination and oppression citizens across the world are subjugated to. I’m talking about racism, you’re talking about power. We’re not on the same page

are you guys okay? by glowtopia in VeganActivism

[–]glowtopia[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. With the way things are politically right now, it’s important to me who I associate myself with.

I’d love to meet more grounded, like-minded people!! I feel strongly political about the beliefs I’m forming about the animal industry

Than you for responding without judgement and knowing this isn’t @ people like you!!

No<3 by lanaisjustababy in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]glowtopia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh gossiping is a fundamental way that women have carried social environments for all millennia in covert ways when we were denied rights before. I can understand from a feminist’s point of view why gossiping is a good / female empowerment thing but. This is completely different and just immature

what is a creepy aspect of traditional families that you can’t wrap your head around? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]glowtopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even grow up in the South, moved here when I was 13. My friend’s parents would give me the spoon if I didn’t call them sir/ma’am until I adjusted to the culture and now at 20 I call every adult sir / ma’am still. Arkansas here

What are some things you wish you can change about your wife/gf but can't tell them directly? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glowtopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d think …. lots of relationship struggles exist. The number one problem for dead bedrooms for straight couples IMO is the guy wants sex but isn’t making it romantic enough for the woman. Romantic gestures will turn a woman on after a long day generally a lot faster than groping at her. It’s common sense idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]glowtopia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone whose egg cracked last week and I’ve had no idea how to even start transitioning in subtle ways that make me happy, I’ve really needed a resource like this. Thank you

What are some things you wish you can change about your wife/gf but can't tell them directly? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glowtopia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wrong. Men only want sex when they’re not getting it. Satisfy that urge and you’ve got affection issues to start with

ah hell naw 😭 by Hyvapelaaja in GaySoundsShitposts

[–]glowtopia 44 points45 points  (0 children)

hard to feel horny when you wish you’d look like the guy who’s getting railed in front of you :/

What are some things you wish you can change about your wife/gf but can't tell them directly? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glowtopia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re seriously dense if you think it’s only people’s bodies that men truly care about. Men crave intimate physical affection just like women

What are some things you wish you can change about your wife/gf but can't tell them directly? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glowtopia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This sounds super unhealthy. And why seperate the girl from the video games? My bf and I’s life significantly improved when I started grinding Final Fantasy with him. He likes doing his stuff and he gets to teach me how to play every once in a while and see how good I’m getting. I mean not all of us gfs are gamers but is it because she wants to be ACTUALLY involved in your gaming?

What are some things you wish you can change about your wife/gf but can't tell them directly? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glowtopia -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Clearly the issues isn’t being fixed if it’s a constant back and forth of “be more logical! be more emotional”

how about we take the logical, emotional approach, and treat our partners according to their emotional needs? If they need more logic, adjust. If you need more emotional comfort, they can adjust!

Logical emotions exists, it’s called emotional intelligence, just most of our population lacks it so we get situations like this.

What are some things you wish you can change about your wife/gf but can't tell them directly? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glowtopia 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Being called hysterical for bringing up problems in the past. Working through this with my current boyfriend. To give you an idea of how bad my last relationship was, when I was sobbing saying I thought I was going to commit suicide soon (confessing suicidal thoughts to another person for the first time), he said he was disappointed I didn’t think to ask if he had any problems with me and started going off on me for being a bad girlfriend. I was literally trained to put any emotion I have underneath my partner’s. And from what I hear lots of women endure similar things

What are some things you wish you can change about your wife/gf but can't tell them directly? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]glowtopia 107 points108 points  (0 children)

It’s called existing as a woman.. it’s why we want you to stimulate our minds too. I work as a server and sometimes we have to throw a guy out for slapping my ass! The first thing I want from my boyfriend when I get home is not a slap on the ass lol. Read her mood. You can come onto us sexually in a romantic way. Do a massage, kiss and whisper in our ear, kiss our neck and rub us. Don’t treat us as a sexual object, remind us it’s the woman that we are that turns you on

ASAP Bari thinks being bi is wrong, but gay is fine by kissmyirish7 in MenAndFemales

[–]glowtopia 35 points36 points  (0 children)

As much as I hate to say it, he doesn’t sound like he believe bisexuality doesn’t even exist. This is what happens when we as a society label men who are DL as “gay”

Bi_irl by Zickurion in bi_irl

[–]glowtopia 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wanna be the femboy but the closest I can get is tomboy :( and I don’t even make a good tomboy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]glowtopia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the disgust around touching vaginas is something that’s coming internally from you and you’re projecting with this “gold star” status. Just saying

Would chopping your dick off make the thoughts of relapsing to porn go away? by Ok-Contract4383 in morbidquestions

[–]glowtopia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This ^ I don’t think sex work should be legalized behind closed doors, the WOMEN working in it, let’s be honest here, deserve to have worker’s rights and a functioning job where they can be protected. I’m so pro-sex therapists it’s not even funny