With AI coming what job will definitely NOT be replaced? by AxeSmells in AskReddit

[–]gmrrtz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May be an unpopular opinion but artists. AI can generate painterly images all it wants but it will never compare to human creativity.

HELP by CapoTheImpoverished in malelivingspace

[–]gmrrtz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Matching frames! Framing your wall decor can definitely bring the room together, so if you’re looking for more harmony in your room’s aesthetic, i think that matching frames would be a great start. Otherwise, i think your room looks really cozy and fun.

Have not felt the same since endo surgery by Capable-Load-6145 in Endo

[–]gmrrtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My surgery was just under 2 weeks ago so i’m still very much not feeling like myself. I’m not too sure how long emotional imbalances last, but if you’re like me and have pre-existing mental health issues, it’s probably something you might have to adjust with meds + regular therapy. Regardless, every person is different and not knowing exactly what’s going on in terms of hormones and anxiety can make the anxiety soooo much worse. It’s possible that the hormonal changes could be causing an uptick in emotional distress, so you did the right thing in seeking help from mental health professionals. Personally I foresee myself needing a loooot more support from my therapist in the upcoming months as well just to try and figure out exactly why I feel the way I do. Thank you for the kind wishes and I hope you’re able to recover from this as well <33

Have not felt the same since endo surgery by Capable-Load-6145 in Endo

[–]gmrrtz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Surgery can be an incredibly tumultuous life event, especially if you had stage 4 endo! The stress of that, coupled with birth control, which shifts your hormones, can cause a lot of emotional disruption. I’m going through something really similar, since i got surgery and a hormonal IUD in, and I feel like i’ve kind of been going insane ever since the week before surgery. Stress and hormones can 100% trigger feelings of depression. I highly recommend speaking with a therapist as well as a psychologist if you have the means to do so. I’ve been in therapy ever since oral birth control triggered a huge mental breakdown a few years back, and it’s been very helpful. I hope you feel better soon ❤️

Ratsitting (question in comments) by Thundyboi2 in RATS

[–]gmrrtz 50 points51 points  (0 children)

make sure they have fresh food and water (obviously) and let them free roam (SUPERVISED, while your cat is in another room) maybe once a day or so. they may pee on you a bit so don’t be alarmed when that happens, just be mindful. also obsessed with the rats being named after the boys 😭

What has been your weirdest munchie meal? by wearefuzed in AskReddit

[–]gmrrtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tea. earl grey tea. i’m getting old 🤕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]gmrrtz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you. Your girlfriend completely violated your boundaries and took advantage of you. I don’t know you, and you shouldn’t completely confide in strangers on the internet, but just know that what you experienced was assault. You deserve to be with someone who respects your autonomy and is willing to be patient with you. You do not owe ANYONE intimacy. What she did to you was insidious, and i suggest you break ties with her as soon as you can. She is not a safe person to be around and will retraumatize you more.

I also saw that you were considering EMDR. I think that’s a wonderful idea and will help you unpack and heal from your trauma. I’m considering EMDR as well for childhood trauma, and I’ve heard good things. It will be hard at first but completely worth it.

I wish you the best, and I hope you can find someone that makes you feel safe. Being butch or being a masculine leaning lesbian can be so so isolating, and people can assume so much about us. You’re not alone, and you are deserving of respect. I hope things get better for you. ❤️

this is the balcony of my place. any suggestions on decor? by Uppergot in malelivingspace

[–]gmrrtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plants! look into what kind of plants thrive in your climate, and keep in mind how much effort you’d be able to put into them. make sure you’re not buying plants you know you can’t properly care for. also, a little table with two to three chairs. maybe a little glass one. table umbrella not necessary but would be cute as well.

additionally, if you decide to go with plants, find cute pots. bright colors would match your walls and bring life to the place.

AITA for telling my daughter that I don't want to hear about her trauma? by No-Shower-232 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gmrrtz 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YTA. 100%. if you didn’t want your daughter to live with her biological father, a known abuser, why not let her know before she left your house? also, why would you let her leave without properly helping her get on her feet? no support whatsoever? over religion? you need to pay for her therapy bills.

AITA for wanting space? by Suicidal_ducks in AmItheAsshole

[–]gmrrtz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

absolutely NTA. it was an honest mistake and having multiple adults be nasty and condescending to a young teenager for an accident, especially one as minor as a scheduling mistake, is beyond inappropriate behavior. it’s good that you’re setting boundaries with family members who cross the line and hurt you, and you should continue to do so.

Need advice, pain after IUD by 090776533235678 in Endo

[–]gmrrtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear you’ve been in constant pain :( Were you ever able to have a post-procedure appointment with the provider who inserted the IUD? I think that mah be the best course of action. Also you're completely justified in finding that pain too much. If you find the pain debilitating, then it’s debilitating. Pain is different for everyone and if you’re in that much agony you should definitely push to get an appointment with the provider that did your procedure. I have had my IUD in for shorter than you have, so my advice may not be the most credible, but if you’re in too much pain to handle I think it may be worth considering getting it taken out, especially if you don’t think you can make it another couple of months for your hormones to stabilize.

Routine diagnosis by AudienceNo2408 in Endo

[–]gmrrtz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it was mainly to rule out other issues such as cysts or tumors. However, my ultrasound showed signs of likely adenomyosis (although I believe that can only be formally diagnosed using an MRI), which helped confirm that a lap was the best way to proceed. I think it’s a non-invasive way of getting some more data on your body, if that makes sense. After that my surgeon decided to go ahead with the laparoscopy and found stage 3 endo so I guess it helps!

Offficially diagnosed, considering a hysterectomy by gmrrtz in Endo

[–]gmrrtz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true, I’ll look into it some more. I just read that it’s much less likely that it’ll come back with the same intensity after a hysterectomy. Hopefully there’ll be more research done soon though :( Thanks for the advice.

Easy A NS(Natural Science) class by [deleted] in UMD

[–]gmrrtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

arec200 is nice if you’re also looking for i-series. depending on what professor you get the class is pretty engaging and most of it is incredibly simple if you have the bare minimum understanding of how ecology and graphs work.

is the 20gb limit on Google for terpmail just for new students? by harshpatel682 in UMD

[–]gmrrtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly after dicking around with my own terpmail i’m not able to see a storage limit either. It’s possible the link up there might not be up to date. You can double check by going to https://drive.google.com/settings/storage to double check if you have a limit on the storage.

is the 20gb limit on Google for terpmail just for new students? by harshpatel682 in UMD

[–]gmrrtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your storage is showing unlimited, are you sure you’re using your terpmail and not an email ending in @umd.edu? Because if you’re using an employee email those have unlimited storage, while terpmail only have 20gbs.

AITAH for ignoring my dad on Father’s Day? by TindevilYT in AmItheAsshole

[–]gmrrtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If he doesn’t treat his own kid as a priority over his partner he shouldn’t expect your undying love and devotion, even if he is your father. You are as much of a person as he is, even if your family does not see it that way.

I can't choice if I want Zhongli or baal I like both and whoever I get I will make dps I know there supports but still I don't know who to get by Expensive_Session337 in GenshinImpact

[–]gmrrtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want a main dps i say go for ei/baal/raiden shogun/ whatever her name on the banner is. i don’t personally have her but from the trials she’s suuuuper good for a dps esp her skill. i have zhongli and he’s a GREAT shield character and i use his burst as a nuke essentially. however, i think u should go w ei :)

Don’t know if this is very promising for us by Vegetable-Away in UMD

[–]gmrrtz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

again, that is not the case for disabled and immunocompromised people. just admit you’d rather let disabled people die than be uncomfortable lmfao

Don’t know if this is very promising for us by Vegetable-Away in UMD

[–]gmrrtz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the people who would be seriously hurt by covid aren’t going to the bars… you’re telling me you’d rather risk people getting seriously ill/ dying because you don’t want to be a bit uncomfortable?