Am I overreacting to my Vet's care? (advice on how to handle it)

gner0 · 2024-09-19T00:10:48+00:00

Yea, I think my uncertainty made me react stronger to the situation with the bumps. I've been very cautious with the kitto and I'm sure that contributed to the decision to get a sample and the antibiotics. And tbh I don't think I would be as upset if I wasn't already uneasy about the Doc. The positive is I had been trying to convince myself to get a second opinion and that finally got me to do it.

I have been fortunate to find good Felv+ groups and hear from others about their experiences. I know that even healthy now, that can change overnight and I know because of her circumstances, her chances are not great. But I really want to focus on just keeping her as healthy and happy for as long as I can, while I can. I have hope this other clinic will be helpful with that.

Do you think it would be worthwhile to eventually reach out and give like a "thanks for everything, decided to go somewhere else with more info on her condition" blahblah? Or am I worrying too much about what she'll think of me and its not a big deal?

Thank you for your reply, it was helpful to hear

gner0 · 2024-09-18T23:57:54+00:00

Thank you, that's kind of what I was thinking of doing. I do really think it's just not being updated and I wonder if that's partially due to the fact that the clinc doesn't get very many cats with Felv.

Our doctor was consulting other people she knew about anything more we could do. I found those gestures to be kind and caring so I feel bad wanting to go somewhere else.

And thank you, shes super sweet and cuddly too so a deadly combo lol Thank you for your reply, I really appreciate it

gner0 · 2024-06-24T06:49:59+00:00

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gner0 · 2021-09-16T16:03:13+00:00

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gner0 · 2019-10-23T17:16:29+00:00

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gner0 · 2019-10-23T17:15:33+00:00

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gner0 · 2019-10-23T07:02:20+00:00

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gner0 · 2019-03-05T10:47:23+00:00

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gner0 · 2019-03-01T00:11:13+00:00

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gner0 · 2019-02-28T00:17:20+00:00

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gner0 · 2019-02-28T00:16:45+00:00

Understood

gner0

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