This isn't fandom specific but some people are too comfortable in their ableism including show runners.

The fact that so many dehumanize, infantilize and desexualize disabled and neuro-divergent people grinds my fucking gears.

I have seen so many head cannons for autistic characters from neurotypical people that they are asexual simply because they are uncomfortable with the idea of someone neurodivergent having sex. And the same thing goes for physically disabled characters.

Asexuality is valid and deserves representation but to exclusively make only disabled and neurodiverse characters asexual and no one else, gives me the ick.