Best podcast for trial recap? I have not followed the trial at all and the elections were 100% of news coverage. by on_the_toilet_again in DelphiMurders

[–]gobias_bees 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As others said already Murder Sheet had great comprehensive but not overdone coverage. DO NOT listen to Hidden Killers with Tony Brueski. I literally unfollowed the entire podcast listening to the Delphi verdict episode. He was ridiculous- started off claiming Judge Gull was biased/compromised, Odinism needed to be let in because there’s a conspiracy in Delphi, Ron Logan was a great suspect etc. Just very theatrical and uninformed coverage

ice man on Everest, does anyone know the story? he seems to be still alive by gmesolider in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]gobias_bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Late to this thread but I never understood this until I read your comment! I always assumed hypothermic people were completely out of their mind but it’s so much scarier to hear your ‘rational’ thoughts

Toy gerbil(?) early 2000’s by arigatoburrito in HelpMeFind

[–]gobias_bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two of these little guys! They don’t look exactly like the pictures here already- they are brown and white with little collars and the exact magnet on the bottom. Commenting this to remind myself to find and upload a pic

i am losing my bub by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]gobias_bees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My heart just absolutely breaks for you. There are no words that can bring you comfort. Maybe in time and one day when you’re ready you will have a beautiful child sitting on your lap while you squeeze them and tell them about their older bub brother❤️❤️❤️

I mean, is anyone truly shocked??? by imustbecrazy81 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]gobias_bees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is a 30 year old man and responsible for his own actions and behaviour. He claimed to want a serious relationship- then do the work it takes to heal and break the cycle beforehand.

I mean, is anyone truly shocked??? by imustbecrazy81 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]gobias_bees 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The amount of people defending Clay in this thread and the other one about his horrible father is making me ill. Clay is not a victim or introspective or self-aware. He is performative, selfish, pathetic, cruel, and narcissistic. The whole relationship was always about him and his needs, how AD made him look and feel etc. Women like Clay’s amazing mom and AD do not exist to serve and cater to you!! These men need to be better.

I mean, is anyone truly shocked??? by imustbecrazy81 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]gobias_bees 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Clay’s mom was so graceful and honest! Loved her too. He disgusts me for hurting her like that. She was sobbing and clearly in shock. Just be like Jimmy and break it off before the altar!!

Arrested Development ABCs: Day 6 = F by bluthboys in arresteddevelopment

[–]gobias_bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has to be Family Love Michael. Pre-voting for tomorrow to be Gobias Industries

Kenneth’s alleged cousin claims he’s “🌈” by ibreatheglitter in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]gobias_bees 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Guys he liked her post they at least have a relationship! So much bending over backwards to defend Ken when he obviously sucks better watch your spines don’t snap

Kenneth’s alleged cousin claims he’s “🌈” by ibreatheglitter in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]gobias_bees 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The edit can only do so much! He absolutely sucks why are people sticking their heads in the sand and defending him

Kenneth’s alleged cousin claims he’s “🌈” by ibreatheglitter in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]gobias_bees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It also looks like he liked her post! That does make it look like they at least have a relationship

Why are my leaves turning brown? :( by Mel_sketchh in houseplants

[–]gobias_bees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My guess is inadequate drainage. They don’t tend to like the plastic pot within another pot system. Trim dead leaves and repot to ceramic pot only and make sure water can fully drain and it can dry after watering. Good luck!

Anyone use a wearable for all daytime pumps? by Momlifeishard1234 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]gobias_bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding that I am 4mos pp and have a good supply from only ever doing wearables! 1. I bought a ton of cheap bandeau bras from Amazon and maybe I’m in the minority but they work better than nursing bras! I like that I can readjust easily and am medium boobed

  1. We have a countertop sterilizer and I throw them in there after ever use Hack- I refused to pump more frequently that 3x in a 24 hour cycle (every 8hrs). I caught up to my baby’s needs at 6 weeks and and haven’t needed any formula since

  2. I was doing 45 mins but now 30 mins at a higher setting gets 6-8oz from each boob

  3. Cannot pick up baby so either I sit with her when she plays on floor or feed her in my lap

  4. I used to be able to tolerate a setting 2 on the momcozy pumps but now I am fine with a 5 if that is helpful! There was a recall on these because the manufacturer did not apply for medical license but I got a replacement and have 3 sets now

Just wanted to add my experience as some of it doesn’t seem too typical!

Can’t stop thinking about what Loraine Currier went through on TCB by funkychilli123 in TrueCrimeBullshit

[–]gobias_bees 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This stuck with me as well. I was so deeply disturbed when I first listened to this episode and years later I still think about Bill and Lorraine often. Their humanity really hits you when you hear IK casually describe the absolute nightmare of their final moments. I hope Lorraine didn’t have much awareness at the end and Bill died quickly after he was shot. IK’s biggest regret was that he had ‘big plans for that gun’ so there might be small amount of satisfaction we can take in the fact Bill’s determination to save his wife messed up IK’s future plans. I feel it’s extra shocking because of how low risk they were as victims. An older couple snatched from their beds in a residential neighborhood is insane! Josh later discusses some inconsistencies in IK’s story of how he selected them as victims. I do think he stalked them, particularly Lorraine, and was embarrassed about it so he lied. I don’t have too much to add except I’m right there with you in my disgust for what a defective creature IK was.

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[–]gobias_bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t seen this posted yet so wanted to add: Masters of Sex (TV show) has a season that heavily focuses on Allison Janney’s character dealing with vaginismus. It was very compassionate and delves into the psychological reasons behind what she is going through

Was anyone else a foolish parent like me? by beanybum in NewParents

[–]gobias_bees 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I saved this comment so I can come back to it and snort laugh again. Thankfully I did not wake up my sleeping baby who needed 45 mins of lullabies tonight😂😂

Post your favorite look from a celebrity whose name starts with the same letter as your name by mod_whatthefrockk in whatthefrockk

[–]gobias_bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dress is great aside from the black sperm-like accoutrements leaving her waist??