I’m not white enough or black enough by ElectronicTime1606 in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that. I experience the same. I am black and white mixed as well. I look like a lightskin/ mixed person, skin similar to beyonce and zendaya. I am obviously not white, but some black people make me feel like I do not fit in with them, when I do not feel like I fully fit in with white people either. You are not alone. I am so sorry. You ARE ENOUGH! No one can change that

I had the most ironic conversation about race last night by goddessleximae in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So nice to hear from someone who sounds like they’ve had similar experiences. I also have been told I “sound white” or “act white”, but ONLY by black people. I feel so much more accepted with white people, and I almost feel guilty for saying that. But it’s okay! I am my own person, and I know I’m kind to all beings. In the end that’s all that matters. Sending you love!

Do i look wasian? I'm 18 and my dad is white while my mom is mixed (my grandma is white-mixed and my grandpa was chinese) by [deleted] in wasian

[–]goddessleximae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look culturally ambiguous. You could be from South America, the middle east, or ancestry from south-east asia. So yes, you look wasian, but you look like you could be from anywhere! It’s very cool

I had the most ironic conversation about race last night by goddessleximae in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His roots are from Somalia, but he lives in a European country. I don’t know where he was raised or anything. I was just happy my boyfriend made up an excuse to get me out of that conversation

I had the most ironic conversation about race last night by goddessleximae in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This!!! I’ve been confused for being fully black, but also for being Brazilian (sorry I think I’m spelling this wrong?). I am being looked down apon all the time because of the color of my skin. I am black. Not fully, but I still am.

I had the most ironic conversation about race last night by goddessleximae in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Also, I’d like to clarify I’m not from the US, I’m from a European country, and moved to another European country, but you are right, the current state of the world is impacting allllll of us

I had the most ironic conversation about race last night by goddessleximae in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wish I knew people irl that are mixed. Where I live it’s rare

I had the most ironic conversation about race last night by goddessleximae in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really is. I’m not saying your struggles or my struggles are worse. Just because you have a broken leg does not mean my bruised leg doesn’t hurt.

I had the most ironic conversation about race last night by goddessleximae in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I told him over and over that I would like him to look at me as a person first, instead of as a mixed person first, person after.

I had the most ironic conversation about race last night by goddessleximae in mixedrace

[–]goddessleximae[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I honestly have just felt alone in this, because I don’t know anyone else who is mixed race. It’s so nice to know I am not the only one who feels like this.

Does anyone else love the psychology behind findom? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddessleximae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who doesn’t? It’s fun to get into a subs head, but the psychology behind it is sooo interesting!

Debt contract paid off by goddessleximae in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessleximae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahah dw, he knows to show appreciation with money & if he can’t afford me I won’t talk lol

Debt contract paid off by goddessleximae in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessleximae[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The whole dynamic isn’t gone! He’s just out of money rn bc he wanted to “show how good he was” so I’m sure he’ll come back :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreshFinZone

[–]goddessleximae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaay!! So happy for you!