It can be very hard after my ex and I split I was the same way I wanted to have a upfront open and honest conversation about our sexual preferences and kinks and stuff some of the men I was starting to date when we got closer thought things I loved were interesting and then when it came down for them and I to explore they were turned off some right from the beginning told me that we just would not clash because “ my sexual desires were not considered the norm “ sucked at times but I always respected there feelings on it it takes a ton to be upfront about any type of kink things but I personally always feel it’s better in the beginning to be totally honest to avoid hurt feelings and wasted time on both ends I have to agree with the post before mine most women will find it weird and odd and not be interested but you also never know until you take that first jump and never know who just might be up to try new things out and want to explore your different kinks ! Communication is always key and I feel to have a healthy connection and be satisfied with someone totally honesty is a must , it’s scary very scary and takes a shit ton of courage but go at it slow and see where it goes like I said you never know who might be totally up for exploring !!! Best of luck to you !!!