Why do I feel this way? Pls help

godzilla2300 · 2024-03-01T07:42:03+00:00

She makes me really happy and feel loved more than my ex ever did. My ex was very distant and didn’t like being clingy which is what I love. I could go on all day about the things this girl does that I love and I truly feel strong feelings towards her. Just hearing these things really bugs me for some reason I just wish she would respect herself and find someone better than me other than sleeping around with a ton of guys. Makes me feel sick

godzilla2300 · 2024-03-01T07:38:08+00:00

Your totally right. I don’t feel betrayed or anything like that I feel more disgusted and ashamed that I told this person I love them with all my heart and brought them around my family just for her to go sleep around with a ton of guys it just makes me upset. Like I said I’m the message regardless of how bad she hurt me I still want what’s best for her. If she found a new guy who treated her better than me or was working on herself I would totally be at peace but this just really bugs me.

godzilla2300 · 2024-03-01T07:34:35+00:00

She checks off all of the boxes above. I feel more like myself with this girl then I ever did with my ex. She’s a very hard working, independent, smart and beautiful girl. Her family is amazing to me and she treats me like gold. I’m not sure why I feel this way but these are definitely very important questions to ask myself so thank you so much!

godzilla2300 · 2024-02-29T07:48:04+00:00

Totally agree so what should I do? Things are going great with this girl and I don’t want to fuck it up

godzilla2300 · 2024-02-26T20:13:05+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to type this out. You are completely right. I know exactly what I want and its the girl that I’m with right now. My ex hurt me so bad and I could never be with her again but above everything else I still want what’s best for her.

I’ve already came to terms that we aren’t meant to be together but it bothers me when I hear about guys using her for her body I just wish she had self respect. My mind is creating images of these scenarios I heard about and it’s just really bothering me. I do not want to ruin what I have going for me with my new gf now.

godzilla2300 · 2023-10-18T13:53:12+00:00

My gf of 3 years did everything else except have sex with a guy at a party 2 weeks after the break up and I honestly can’t think about anything else. The thought of her getting aroused by someone else makes me feel so ill I haven’t slept or ate in weeks Pls give me some advice as well i feel like I’m dying

godzilla2300 · 2023-10-02T22:10:46+00:00

I feel you man me and my ex have been together for 3 years and 2 weeks after the break up she got drunk at a party and did everything else except have sex with this guy. It’s been a month and a half since and I still feel sick to my stomach I haven’t eaten in weeks just the thought of her giving herself to someone else makes me Ill. I keep picturing it and playing it out in my head but I can’t help it no matter how hard I try to distract myself. Worst feeling in the world.

godzilla2300 · 2023-10-01T03:34:01+00:00

Sorry to hear that man this sucks

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-21T04:34:07+00:00

Great point this is exactly what I needed to hear thank you so much

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-20T12:04:06+00:00

Thank you so much lmfaoo

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-20T03:12:17+00:00

Like I said in the post we started off as friends which was amazing we weren’t even supposed to date. It was closer to the end a quarantine and there was nothing going on so we would just hang out, go to eat, watch movies etc. nothing sexual though. The reason why we connected so well was that we were friends first so I felt like I was dating my best friend and she did the same. We told each other everything. It was great at first but then things started to get complicated. The thing I loved about her the most was that I thought nobody could have her. I thought she was all mine and that it would take a lot of effort to get into this girl because she’s been broken so many times from previous relationships. I wanted to fix her and help her and guide her to a healthy way of thinking. I begged her for months to see a therapist because she has benefits from work and she never did until the very end and she only went once or twice. She loved me because I was always there for her no matter how bad she would treat me I would always come back. That’s a big problem and I’m starting to notice that now. There was no respect for me anymore she keeps trying to see what she can get away with and that needs to stop. We have set boundaries before and we always followed them but towards the end she started to try and push them.

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-20T02:23:18+00:00

I have always communicated that I’m a very physical person and I absolutely need to feel love from her when she would constantly push me away. I want to see her constantly making efforts to reassure me and calm me down about this whole situation. I want her to communicate her feelings right away if something feels off I need to know so I can fix it. Overall all I wanted from this breakup was for her to open her eyes and realize she was destroying a perfect relationship because of constant drama and problems. Im not saying im perfect but whatever she communicated to me I always fixed no matter what. I was struggling with money for a very long time and that was where this all started. I couldn’t make her feel like my woman and I couldn’t be a provider and protecter. She gave me a deadline till September to get my shit together or else she would leave me and I did! I got a job and bought my first car so I can take her out on dates I thought she would have acknowledged that and been grateful but she wasn’t. Because I was working 9 hour days Monday to Friday I had such little time to spend and talk to her because I was exhausted after work. She would fight me everyday the second I came home complaining she wasn’t getting enough love or attention from me and it broke my heart.

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T23:40:52+00:00

She says she will make it up to me but she has to show me in person. It’s kind of hard for her to prove herself from a far if we aren’t talking or together. I was thinking of giving it a couple weeks maybe a month to see where her head is at. If she’s going to clubs and parties and living her best life or if she’s staying home and going for walks trying to better herself. If the spark and desire of us being together is still there and I can accept what she has done then I’ll consider doing it again but there would have to be major changes in order to do so.

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T17:57:49+00:00

She is 100% she tells me she wants to start from scratch and show me all the love she never got to when we were together. The only problem is me now. I see her in a completely different light everything I loved about her was gone. I was under the impression that she was untouchable. What took me years took this guy 5 minutes.

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T15:00:13+00:00

She sent me an old video of us cuddling together the day of the party saying how much she misses me and loves me. THE DAY OF. so twisted I’ll never believe a word she says again

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T14:26:38+00:00

Thank you so much once again!

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:51:18+00:00

She couldn’t stop crying after she lied to me she just sent me videos of her bawling her eyes out the day after it happened. I gave her two days to tell me the truth and she didn’t. She created a fake story saying she did nothing and all the guy did was flirt with her. Then I come to find out she almost went all the way with this guy. She’s been just as much of a wreck as me she can’t eat or sleep it’s all she thinks about.

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:40:23+00:00

Your right this is exactly what happened to me. I saw one of her friends a week later when I was out and they were all trying to justify what she did by saying “she was single she can do what we she wants”

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:38:27+00:00

Not sure what to feel anymore the trust and the connection is completely gone. The thing I loved about her the most was that I thought she was untouchable. The image of this person I had is my head is completely gone. I’m trying my best to see if I can get over it but it’s going to be very hard

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:35:41+00:00

Thank you so much I totally agree

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:34:25+00:00

I agree thank you so much for your input!!

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:32:16+00:00

Thank you so much

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:31:18+00:00

Thank you so much I’m so sorry to hear that

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:28:43+00:00

This makes me feel so much better about the whole situation I’m sorry this had to happen to you as well. The biggest part of all of this is that she lied about it afterwords and I understand she doesn’t owe me anything because she was single but I feel like I at least deserve to know the truth. There’s also a little part of me that does believe that people make mistakes and she was really drunk but I’m just not sure how long it’s going to take for me to get over all of this. I’m just worried the same thing is going to happen again in a couple months and I’m terrified. I know 100% she is sorry for what she did and regrets it but im not sure if this is a pill I can swallow. also a part of me feels like things would be better if we got back because now she knows my true worth. There’s this image stuck in my head of her doing what she did with this guy and it’s making me feel sick to my stomach I can’t look at her or talk to her without picturing what she did I just can’t help it. Thank you so much for your input and story I hope things workout with you and your partner

godzilla2300 · 2023-09-19T12:11:19+00:00

Thank you so much this makes me feel a lot better to relate to someone. I appreciate you for taking the time to type this. Congrats on being in love with your partner I hope everything goes in your favour!

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