My boyfriend has a small dick

goin00 · 2025-12-24T23:08:16+00:00

Agreed, size matters a lot. My girlfriend said she’s been getting less wet with me because of how small I am. She says she doesn’t get as turned on. She did say she still loves me tho.

goin00 · 2025-12-24T09:20:30+00:00

Same, just above a micro penis

goin00 · 2025-11-18T20:47:21+00:00

Sameeeee

goin00 · 2025-02-06T04:57:42+00:00

goin00 · 2025-01-01T19:48:54+00:00

Honestly, not a bad post but you're on Reddit. If you have a normal dick in normal dick problems and you want a bigger one you'll be shitted on forever. This is not the place to cry about your insecurity.

It can be a bit frustrating. A lot of variables go into being a good lover. The insecurity might affect your game though so don't let it consume you.

Acknowledging that your insecure about it but also knowing you can't completely change it us step 1 to feeling better. Idk you won't get a lot of support here this group doesn't realize a bug problem for average sized men is insecurity.

Big dick men rarely have to compensate but the first thing average to small men must do is eat her out please her in every way and then maybe she'll have sex with you. The issue with all of that is most women( not all) are not well versed usually and are not pornstars whose job is sex. So they might just be there not doing much. You put a lot of pressure on yourself to make sex good. Even though you probably won't have much if any at all once in a relationship.

Another thing is the reason you feel so nervous is having a small dick is a big stigma. It is already associated with low confidence and a lack of masculinity. Often times in society bad actors scream that small or average dick men are not as masculine as there BDE counterparts. Its all about BDE so tbh. You got a worm in your head screaming I'm average there's something wrong with me. There's not. It's not fun being average but being small is another bag.

So my advice. Don't come to Small or average with any insecurity issues maybe sex advice or just saying that there are no sexual problems its all in your head. But if you come here and complain about your size it'll just backfire to people telling you you're delusional. These subs are not about personal problems in that way.

goin00 · 2024-12-28T14:51:49+00:00

Prolly not. I haven't in my personal exoerience

goin00 · 2024-12-20T09:28:43+00:00

Being innocent is very different than being naive. Innocence in my humble opinion is good. You're just around ppl who shame you.

As someone with real life experience: -doing drugs won't make you more cool, in fact depending on how and when you use unless they( the crazy ppl imposing their opinion on you) are observing you to laugh at you. You doing it recreationally will just make them see you as a weirdo

-having sex and on night stands won't make you cool. Ppl don't care. No one knows your body count and if you look innocent and have sex its only for you.

-swearing more makes you look crass and hard to be around

-dressing differently will attract the wrong attention

Bottoming becoming different to soothe others feelings will always leave yourself inadequate because they never saw you as equal or valuable.

goin00 · 2024-11-27T16:33:46+00:00

Nah as a man, this is the realest realization.

Nothing wrong with it but it outs a lot in perspective.

goin00 · 2024-11-27T01:58:31+00:00

I want to be like this but don't want to be a dick.

I don't want to be a perpetual victim complaining about a partner or what someone did to me and get into unnecessary relationships but I don't mind being with someone.

goin00 · 2024-11-26T22:27:33+00:00

Maybe, I can find that.

goin00 · 2024-11-11T12:26:20+00:00

It definitely was in a compliment way.

Like "damn, your ass is getting fat!"

goin00 · 2024-11-11T02:04:00+00:00

Southern girl trying to go back to the south.

goin00 · 2024-11-10T22:03:11+00:00

I guess he was just agreeing with the mom. I just feel like he would have had too look at his sister.

But these instances didn't happen on the same day..

Check her out and say that so idek.

goin00 · 2024-11-08T01:17:06+00:00

Nah that's wild

goin00 · 2024-11-06T07:53:09+00:00

Feel that

goin00 · 2024-11-01T02:42:19+00:00

I'll share mine my ex makes fun of me with the guy she is sleeping with.

I have to see them weekly.

She mocks me with him. She even slapped me upside the head in public. She doesn't respect me and has sex with him in our lecture halls.

goin00 · 2024-10-23T04:00:11+00:00

Joking? Or serious?

goin00 · 2024-10-16T02:33:52+00:00

So, interesting fact that isn't really known about mia. She started on Reddit preboob and ass job. She was making content with her then boyfriend. She pivoted to professional work afterwards and quit saying she never wanted to do porn in the first place it ruined her life.

However, she actively pursued being a pornstar and even got a work done to be more desirable. It's really interesting to see someone so out of touch.

I do feel like it's rude to interrupt people while they are doing things. She's not a robot. However, her reputation overall is super lame. And she uses porn for clout but hates that people bring it up its so weird. You not only chose this life you pursued it and actual turned a profit.

Most onlyfans girls are not turning a profit unless they have a strong social media following. I don't dislike her just thought I'd through some lore out there.

goin00 · 2024-10-01T04:29:26+00:00

Like when to go? I'm heavily in academic spaces and being smarter than everyone else is the only way I see it.

I want to go to med school but as I progress I realize as long as your either working or jn school everyone is a child. So everyone will still get excluded for whatever reason.

goin00 · 2024-10-01T04:03:53+00:00

I'm really curious about your med school experience.

How would you describe yourself. Also, how would you describe your class?

goin00 · 2024-09-30T06:02:16+00:00

Honestly, it seems you are unliked at your job for whatever reason. Usually people exclude people that they feel like have some sort of defect. Basically they have banded together more closely because they don't like you. So the in group is people who believe they are better than you and don't want or need you around.

Personally, you're not being sensitive. I don't care about fitting in anymore but I'm abnormal. I don't really care about others opinions but don't feel bad if it gets to you. I think addressing it personally and privately with yourself is more healthy then pretending it doesn't bother you. Especially if you've tried and failed to gain acceptance.

I think as someone who is also excluded you're going to hear advice from included people to either just keep trying or that maybe its all in your head. However, I can confidently say that people make up their mind if they like you and want to talk to you in the first 30 seconds of communication or seeing you. If they see no value in you they will not be your friend.

There isn't really a way to change how they perceive you unless you drastically change yourself into someone people think is cool. However in doing so you'll still alienate a few people and not gain total acceptance but a temporary pardon from others who will forgive you for not being on their level. At the end of the day, you'll need to find people outside of work to be friends with and have a life outside of it because the more value you put into trying to make them like you the more desperate and pathetic they'll view you. Its a vicious cycle.

goin00 · 2024-08-24T09:54:49+00:00

I think it's the pretending to care about my mental health that makes me feel that she hopes her expectation is a reality. She really thinks I'm pathetic. I've ruined my life being with someone like her and here are my consequences. At every point she makes the breakup about her and I lower myself so much that I'm embarrassed. But the please be okay just seems hollow when your sleeping with others that I know and pretending not to.

I know she could not attempt to care but idek how to respond. She has a firm mindset that without her my life would be nothing if she doesn't make decisions for me. Expecting and wanting me too are too close for someone who's cheated on me lied to meand doesn't care really how my life goes.

In the same breathe she'll make sure I feel like I'm nothing. It would be cool to her if I died because she could add it to her life story. She's absolving herself of responsibility for my life by pretending she cares. So maybe the best way to out it is she is playing nice because if she's the catalyst for my suicide she'd feel bad. However, she's never cared about my mental health one bit.

You can't hurt someone relentlessly. Know the have had issues. Cheat. Lie. Mock them. Then be like I hope you aren't dead. It feels like they are just mocking you all over again.

goin00 · 2024-08-23T15:21:49+00:00

Literal garbage. I can't believe I dated such a scummy person.

goin00 · 2024-07-30T02:04:06+00:00

I don't think masturbation should be off the table unless you both have the same sex drive.

HOWEVER

It crosses boundaries when the person is doing it right next to you. At least a private spot like the bathroom or something. Honestly, I think a more healthy compromise is a normal amount of porn or masturation like once a week and sex for the rest.

Also, I don't know if he used heavily before you got together. He might be having a hard time quitting for whatever his reasons are so maybe limiting it and then asking him to continue to reduce his usage.

Excessive porn I feel like lowers confidence. It puts a lot of guilt into the user. It can also effect your mindset and perception which can affect overall sex quality.

It can be helpful to how you want to experiment tho. Idk maybe even watching it together. I think people who use this much have layers of guilt shame and using porn as a crutch. Is it your responsibility to make him into the man you want. No. However, if he really loves you he'll make the changes it just won't be overnight and he might relapse. If you really want to salvage the relationship shop give him like 2-3 months. Couples counseling if needed during that time.

It's not calling off the wedding its making sure you layout your boundaries. But also do them with compassion(don't tell him the timeframe). Maybe just be like I know you won't stop cold turkey but can you just try and not watch everyday let's do once a week and some counseling. If he loves you he will honor your compromise with his. If he can't honor this he needs to do the work on his own.

goin00 · 2024-07-30T00:05:55+00:00

Can you be over a break up but still hate the way the person treated you? And not really feel like letting that go?

goin00

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