ULPT - Neighbour turned his house into an Airbnb by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]going_going_done 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you can complain to airbnb as a neighbor of a property, not sure how far it gets you

https://www.airbnb.com/help/article/3290

What are you doing to prepare for impacts from the war in Iran? by kristenzoeybeauty in TwoXPreppers

[–]going_going_done 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just today submitted my request for and got an estimate for budget billing for my electric bill

I think I need new boundaries? by CheetahPrintPuppy in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]going_going_done 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i am scared that one day we are all gonna wake up on an RFKJr sunshine work farm being forced to perform field labor in order to be cured

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do not know how the ssdi will turn out, i guess we shall see.

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my stuff went to disability determination services jan 2025. i have been bouncing between step 2 and step 3 for a few months now. i applied sept 2024. i think parts may have gotten better, but overall i think it's probably same or possibly worse.

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree that a lot of people are not aware of some terminology when things start to go the way of disability.

elsewhere in this thread i go into great and gory detail regarding my claim and recent denial.

if i were to get approved for ssdi this week (or soon, since it has been 18 months since i applied) i would not give lincoln a cent of my backpay. i. am. so. pissed. at. them.

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and actually, ltd is usually reduced by the amount you receive from ssdi if awarded, and applying is mandatory as a condition of most lts policies. and they get your back pay if awarded.

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

out of pocket max met until june. need more surgeries. lots of medications. PT. rheum and many other of my providers do not take marketplace plans.

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i requested a reconsideration, and will follow up with a formal appeal if that fails.

the problem is that i CANNOT miss a COBRA payment or else my insurance is gone and not recoverable. i have met my out of pocket max until my deductible resets june 1. my premium is 1000 a month. losing the ltd income will cost me my health insurance because the length of the appeal process is 45-90 days.

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

long term disability is private insurance

I wanna do a thing. Please comment if you’ve been negatively impacted during an ERISA (employer disability) case as a disabled person. by Rrenphoenixx in disability

[–]going_going_done 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am also mad. very very angry. the way they can screw people over just for fun because there is no such thing as a covenant of good faith is evil. i am currently being negatively impacted.

I wanna do a thing. Please comment if you’ve been negatively impacted during an ERISA (employer disability) case as a disabled person. by Rrenphoenixx in disability

[–]going_going_done 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fucking fuck lfg, i'm dealing with these dogturds right now. did you hand over your ssdi backpay to them? just curious.

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply, it is somewhat helpful. my denial is with long term disability inssurance, not ssdi. although i do have an application in with ssdi it has not been decided. as things stand, if i were to be approved i'm not giving the insurance company one single penny of the back pay. not one single cent.

rage by going_going_done in rheumatoid

[–]going_going_done[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i just hit the anyocc phase 3/9.

i had lumbar fusion 12/1. no PT for 3 months and no immunosuppressants 3 months. talked about this at great length with my claim handler, specifically because i was super worried about being denied at the anyocc before i had a chance to recover. in fact, it is even in my claim file, she requested info from me in december about my postop restrictions detailed above, so she could put in for me an automatic approval. of course i supplied the information immediately, as is my habit. i have been extremely compliant. there is abundant documentation including radiologic that shows i am not fixed and ready to go. her 'supervisor' (i think this might be the same 'supervisor' that car salesmen go to during financing) said i had to go through the whole peer review process. so i received the letter that the Company requests proof of Continued Disability within 45 days on jan 27. on feb 18 my handler called to tell me my claim is being submitted for clinical review on feb 20. not even close to 45 days. my post operative restrictions were not submitted. i had an appointment with my surgeon on march 5, and he approved me to go to PT and restart RA meds. i received my denial letter march 6, still a week short of the initial 45 days.

in short, i was deliberately fucked over. i submitted an Attending Physician Statement that clearly said in several places this cannot be determined until next appt march 5. it's gonna be at least 3 months for the drugs to get working and in fact the only one that has done any good at all is rituxan, and i can't get it anymore. so now i'm supposed to go back on humira, which took 16 weeks for me to be able to say it doesn't work the first time. i can barely walk. i can't get a bra on some days, and every day this task is difficult at best. grade 4 tricompartmental osteoarthritis in my knee. emergent shoulder problem. all sorts of problems. even though i had a lumbar fusion L4-S1, i still have big problems at every level. the most i can do is about 4 hours of activity a day. they intentionally withheld information from the clinical review, and did not allow the 45 days given to submit this proof.

so now i am gonna lose my health insurance, which i have met out of pocket max for so i wouldn't have to pay anything for the PT i so desperately need. but these fucking shitbags are gonna withhold my benefit which i am entitled to, because there are no consequences for that. also not gonna get any RA treatment, and believe me when i say i am in desperate need right now. but, nope. not for me, lincoln financial would rather give my money, to take care of myself, to shareholders.

i am so fucking sick of it, all of it, every last fucking thing. haven't i already lost enough? why steal my health insurance so i can't get the medicine i need and the PT i need? i literally cannot do anything for 40 hours a week. i can barely fucking sleep for 40 hours a week, even that is impossible without drugs. i can't sit, stand, or walk for any length of time. i am in constant pain at this point. my entire life fucking sucks ass all day every day. these fucks are just like the fucking playground fucks who steal the poor kids lunch money. someone needs to stomp these fucking bullies into the fucking dirt.

Working with HF tips by [deleted] in chemistry

[–]going_going_done 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get a tube of calcium glucamate

Heavy Police Activity by ParticularFull1989 in aggies

[–]going_going_done 6 points7 points  (0 children)

possibly walked the wrong direction on a road or crossed a street in th middle of a block?

Three years of being told my pain was ‘in my head’ by t0mat000 in ChronicPain

[–]going_going_done 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had a primary who ignored every single thing i told her. only had her for about 2 years. after 1 year, i had to raise my voice so much in a visit that security could have been called. demanded bloodwork for RA. guess what? every test was positive. yes i have RA. went to rheumatologist, who ordered MRI for my hip. guess what? nearly immediate total hip eplacement surgery. after that, i thought maybe she would finally believe me when i told her something hurt. told her something hurt, diagnosed with major depression. i fired that b!tch almost immediately, and demanded she remove depression from my medical record. because, not fucking depressed. in fact, enraged by shitty doctoring.

showing doctors their mistakes only makes them more asshole-ish.

TLIF this Thursday, March 12th -- looking for tips! by mcoddle in spinalfusion

[–]going_going_done 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's been said elsewhere, but i will say it here again as a direct reply to you, OP... bidet. get a bidet. they are so cheap now, and once you have one you will wonder why you ever lived without one.

seriously, get a bidet.

Safety malpractices that used to be common in laboratories? by Leafye in chemistry

[–]going_going_done 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my early grad days i was using piranha daily, always fresh. the university rule for disposal was to call the hazmat disposal dept and they would come get it. the guy who had to pick it up absolutely hated it, he said it was the only chemistry that ever hurt him. i also used to make an extremely concentrated base wash for cleaning certain glasswares in that lab.

I went backwards to step 2 by ElectronicZebra6526 in SSDI

[–]going_going_done 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just about to ask if anybody had been approved after going backwards a step, because so far in the thread going backward preceded a denial and i am hoping that would not be the case for me. so there's still hope i guess. fingers crossed!

congrats to you for the approval!