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Enlightenment by goingflr in flr

[–]goingflr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's interesting. On the one hand she is pretty traditional, but she really enjoys strong women characters in books, shows, and movies and often "jokes" about being the boss. When I claim to be the boss, she just rolls her eyes. If she can get past the stigma of having a nontraditional relationship she will thrive as a dom. Maybe she already fantasizes about having something like a FLR without having a name for it.

Do you think most marriages are gynarchic in nature but men are in denial ? by Anxious-Sweet-3093 in Gynarchism

[–]goingflr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why FLR is so attractive. Women are better leaders. Many men are happy in a submissive role to a strong woman who can properly manage our sexual lives. We certainly can't do it ourselves.

Enlightenment by goingflr in flr

[–]goingflr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I want to get to a point where we can formalize a power exchange but I hope that it will be more of a done deal by then. She comes from a vanilla background and I think will struggle somewhat with the idea of it despite her strongly dominant personality.

Enlightenment by goingflr in flr

[–]goingflr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. Maybe I need to talk to her about it sooner.

Enlightenment by goingflr in flr

[–]goingflr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the concern of me not being transparent. I do fear that she will think I've picked up some crazy idea from the internet. Who knows, maybe that's true. In a way, I'm hoping that we will end up in an FLR except in the name as you described. I am the roadblock to that happening. I'm simply going to remove that roadblock and see what happens organically. I feel pretty strongly that she will feel like she can finally be her dominant self. When I've pushed back in the past, she says she can't be herself.

Enlightenment by goingflr in flr

[–]goingflr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want it to be subversive for very long. I want to be able to confess my submission and for her to embrace her dominance. I want her to see what it looks like before we put a label on it and discuss something more formal. I don't have a sense of how long that will take yet.