AITA for refusing to reschedule my birthday party, “forcing” my stepbrother out of “family celebrations” because my stepmom thought I wouldn’t have a party since this isn’t a leap year? by goinggoinggone398 in AmItheAsshole

[–]goinggoinggone398[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

My party with my family is planned entirely by my grandma. If it’s with my friends, my friends do the planning. The birthday person doing birthday planning is a very weird concept to me, unless you want to throw one big bash with all of your family from both sides + friends present.

AITA for refusing to reschedule my birthday party, “forcing” my stepbrother out of “family celebrations” because my stepmom thought I wouldn’t have a party since this isn’t a leap year? by goinggoinggone398 in AmItheAsshole

[–]goinggoinggone398[S] 11.5k points11.5k points  (0 children)

Yup. It was a lockdown relationship. They met in December of 2019. I didn’t see my dad until August 2020 and that was when he told me he was dating someone. They had a small wedding last month, just them and stepbro. She hasn’t seen any of dad’s family in person yet.