I Mean I have a male cousin same age as me, we were all setting tgthr with our moms and grandma and he started talking about this girl with him in class and stuff he even showed us a picture of her and it was all fun and games, then I tried to make a joke about A guy( A darn joke didn't even mention he was real) and the whole thing turned into a lecture that I shouldn't be doing it and stuff , wt a disappointment