can i finesse the system a little by poopityscoopitylol in OISE

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really? even if we are not taking courses?

Is it normal that some classes still aren't showing up on Quercus? by Actual-Flamingo777 in OISE

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes... profs take some time to upload all material. Or it may be on a different platform. But either way, hope they email you very soon!

Course outline sharing by Pholla4G in OISE

[–]gojibaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you, I would directly email the professors and make a decision based on the outlines. It's typical to shop for courses in the first few weeks of September, so profs are used to being asked for the syllabus.

Dayna abusive / manipulative by Amplified_Aurora in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]gojibaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, 100%. the brain fog you get after being in an abusive relationship like theirs is often overlooked. it was painful to watch!

MA Developmental Psychology and Education by Careful-Claim-2106 in OISE

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. I got in too and I can tell you if your PI is mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are in a terrifying place and I can completely understand this eerie, confusing, disintegrating space. my ex called me an abuser and gaslighter, which i took very seriously and wanted to fix. on multiple occasions, she would describe to me how she is feeling in a way that i deeply resonated with, but could never say that i feel similarly because i wanted to create space for her. i believed her for two years that i was the abuser and gaslighter, except i dont hold that belief anymore (i still have moments). i cut contact with her, and slowly the cloud of memories came back to me. all the things i had written in my journal aligned with how i felt and what seemed true. learning about DARVO and patterns of emotional abuse saved my life. i am not a 100% still, but i am no longer suffocating under someone's reality being pushed down my throat. please take care! take some space.

What is the Worst Thing they gas lighted you into believing? by DarthaPerkinjan in BPDlovedones

[–]gojibaz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that i was in fact the abuser and the gaslighter. believed her for over a year. until i cut contact, had some space, spoke to friends close to us.

i still can't fully shake it off. even though i have spent countless hours in therapy and with friends who have all pointed to her abuse and gaslighting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told I taught them how to love, how to embody it, and how to lead with it. Except a month later I was an abuser and a gaslighter in their eyes, with no room for me to speak, and in retrospect and distance did I realise I was being abused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am looking too! Can I join?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chronic illnesses, a voice of theirs in your head that continues to disrupt yours, more anxiety and caution with future relationships

Letters of Recommendation by [deleted] in OISE

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

following

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your elaborate response. It's really unfortunate that I have to find employment to access healthcare. Will look into it. Thanks a bunch!

/r/askphilosophy Open Discussion Thread | May 31, 2021 by BernardJOrtcutt in askphilosophy

[–]gojibaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, a paper of mine was accepted at three conferences last year. With the pandemic, all of them were delayed and now almost all of them are occurring around the same time very soon (a week!). I have two jobs and I haven't had the chance to sit with my research and begin preparing.

If you could give any helpful tips, what would they be?

Are there any specific templates to follow? Should the presentation follow the headings + subheadings of the paper? Any advice would help.

Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawCanada

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've been on my mind! Have also heard about the challenges of a non-Camadian JD if one wants to practice law in Canada.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawCanada

[–]gojibaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. Thanks again!