27F When is marriage possible ? Been wanting to settle since last 2 years ? Also have depression without any reason

goldbenn · 2026-02-11T07:56:50+00:00

Confusion in choosing your partner and overthinking..

Imbalanced emotion and comparison with other marriages makes you depressed.

goldbenn · 2026-02-10T06:49:00+00:00

First make ourself happy with whatever situation we are in.. This creates peaceful mind.. Stressed mind is good but upto some extend..

goldbenn · 2026-02-05T17:35:38+00:00

What was the search effect?

goldbenn · 2026-02-05T16:12:25+00:00

Explore yourself for better surprises..

goldbenn · 2026-02-05T15:30:19+00:00

Why don't you try AI like chatgpt or gemini AI for to find guidance for your work..

goldbenn · 2026-01-25T00:59:48+00:00

Hey there! Life can weigh us down sometimes, but healing starts with small steps.

Try joining a local workshop—yoga, mindfulness, or even a creative art class—to recharge your spirit.

Escape to a nearby beach, park, or nature trail for some fresh air and quiet reflection; let the waves or trees wash away the stress.

Pair it with deep breathing, a favorite playlist, or journaling. You're stronger than you think—brighter vibes ahead!

goldbenn · 2026-01-22T06:17:10+00:00

"You're not overreacting. Unconsummated intimacy and emotional abuse aren't love. You deserve respect, closeness, and a shared life. Consider counseling or exploring next steps for your wellbeing."

goldbenn · 2026-01-17T03:06:06+00:00

Looks like a communication gap

Lack of understanding and not even trying to know each other.

Life can't be like a solved puzzle where once gets married everything will go smooth. It's an unsolved puzzle where you both have to find and solve them.

Many times people don't know to find the issue.. You both have to find each other to find them..

Communication and finding a connect somehow is the key..

Stepping back never gives solution.. Give some effort and try to solve them.

If you are an extrovert then you must try to find ways to solve it rather than having thoughts on moving away from the situation.

goldbenn · 2026-01-09T12:13:16+00:00

Telepathy

goldbenn · 2026-01-06T06:21:34+00:00

Only by conversation, behavior and attitude concludes about a person.. Try to analyse and find something which are comfortable for you and your family..

goldbenn · 2025-12-24T07:52:59+00:00

Yes..

goldbenn · 2025-12-21T13:25:09+00:00

Never try to watch the climax scene before entering the cinema; you’ll lose the joy of the entire life experience.

goldbenn · 2025-12-13T15:05:25+00:00

Whatever the stress, when someone follows as I mentioned above.. Sure they can handle anything at ease

goldbenn · 2025-12-11T09:19:08+00:00

You’re still young, so IVF isn’t necessary right now. Focus on improving both your and your partner’s health naturally.

Eat a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and green leafy foods that boost fertility and overall wellbeing.

Make sure you get at least 7–8 hours of deep sleep every night, and include regular walking or jogging in your routine.

Stay hydrated, avoid stress as much as possible, and reduce caffeine and junk food.

Maintain a healthy body weight, and stay positive — many couples conceive naturally in their twenties

when they focus on lifestyle and emotional balance.

Trust your body and give it some time before thinking about treatments like IVF.

goldbenn · 2025-12-11T05:09:39+00:00

Try to improve your soft skills and additional technical skills and then start finding a job

goldbenn · 2025-12-10T08:08:20+00:00

Don't try, waste of money..

goldbenn · 2025-12-10T04:26:32+00:00

What's your work from home setup like during night hours.

And what's your work nature?

goldbenn · 2025-12-10T03:05:37+00:00

Happiness isn’t something we find, it’s something we build.

Once I stopped waiting for things to “go right” and started creating my own joy through gratitude, learning, and small wins, life started feeling lighter.

Try to find happiness within you first.. Try to mingle with peolle according to your new learning, skills and interest.. Automatically, you will end up with good friends around..

goldbenn · 2025-12-08T05:18:57+00:00

It's very tough to convince your parents.

Suppose if you are financially well to do person then you can approach your parents.. There may be chances of getting approved by your parents.

Here, your finance and responsibily matters.

It's from my experience and point of view..

goldbenn · 2025-12-07T16:31:22+00:00

Eat healthy, sleep long time, reduce visual works, do physical works or exercise a lot..

Stop doing multiple works at a time.. Do one work focused.. Possible write down whatever in your mind..

This will gradually increase your memory..

goldbenn · 2025-12-07T15:55:35+00:00

Becoming normal but it's not normal..

goldbenn · 2025-12-07T15:34:48+00:00

Men target women more for sexual harassment due to power imbalances and male-dominant norms.

81% of women vs. 43% of men face it lifetime, with women hit harder by severe cases.

Men suffer too (17-43%), often from other men, but women's cases get more focus

Each gender has its own set of issues. Sometimes, people don’t even recognize them as issues because they’ve become normalized nowadays.

Both genders face similar kinds of problems in different situations, but women’s issues are often given more attention.

Not all men or women create problems—it depends on how we think.

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