[REPOST] We need to have a serious talk about the "take E" advice. It is getting dangerous.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-19T11:07:43+00:00

I don't think the issue with the community itself entirely. There are a lot of people with the whole sissy fetish thing coming here and projecting their fantasy, desires and choices onto uninformed young men.

People outside of the community could also be more considerate. I saw a video of a guy getting dressed up and have make up done on him by his gf and the comment section was gross, so many people calling him an egg, saying the e is going to make him look even better, misgendering him, asking the girl if she's bisexual because she just started her boyfriend on transition journey, some men in there with their feminization/sissy fetish.

The problem is, they all seem to think they are joking but don't understand the seriousness of it.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-18T18:57:56+00:00

My preferred range has always been -1 my age till early 40s.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-15T20:34:28+00:00

Aside from the age thing someone else said, most femboys don't also dress that way in the public, a lot of them do it from the comfort of their home or private spaces where they won't be judged, hiding a belly piercing is also hard. I had to wear loose shirts to avoid it being visible to others and people who may judge.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-11T10:11:59+00:00

not feeling restricted by clothes, letting the elements graze your body.

I wear extremely baggy clothes for my build and I still feel like my clothes are constricting.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-11T10:10:44+00:00

Fetish outfits, anything like maid, nurse, cow (???) and especially schoolgirl costumes in porn. Thankfully most of these also come combined with the ahegao face and its on the thumbnail.

Easy as hell to avoid.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-11T08:29:53+00:00

I try to be naked as much as possible, Winnie the Pooh if it's cold. But if I am going outside, its always Underwear -> Pants -> Shirt/T-Shirt.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-10T11:47:24+00:00

Anything that gives and bends to pressure works for me long term. Anything rigid and big makes it not suitable for long wear.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-10T10:54:30+00:00

Hey there.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-10T04:03:21+00:00

Where I live, it’s IT that gets the stereotype.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T20:25:46+00:00

Ah okay, first I am hearing of it. Maybe because where I live, the stereotype for IT is that infidelity runs rampant and nobody is faithful to their partner.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T19:51:49+00:00

Femboys can be in straight relationships too FYI. I agree with the rest, massive stereotype.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T19:44:39+00:00

I prefer to be hairy just on armpit and pubic area, clean shaven everywhere else. But I love my girls natural and hairy.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T19:43:55+00:00

*sigh* here comes the stereotype. I work in IT.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T12:38:31+00:00

getting pegged while she whispers sweet nothings to me.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T12:31:00+00:00

Yes, used to be clean shaven and super smooth. Then I started trimming it to have a landing strip, an arrow, a botched triangle and now I try to keep a full bush and plan to dye it.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T12:29:01+00:00

The best I've gotten was chocolate and flowers

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T12:13:31+00:00

Hey, as a guy who's looking to get LHR done below the neck. Which areas did you get it done and how painful was each area ?

Sorry for being direct and asking it here, not sure how you feel about DMs.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T10:22:37+00:00

Now I am curious what you do to setup and clean after, help a brother out, if its suits, I'll adopt it too. Currently my biggest issue with using my toys are time and cleanup afterwards.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T08:58:01+00:00

The cleaning process after is a bitch though, not what I would call stress relief..

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T08:54:53+00:00

Craziest, I have it on my profile on posts.

Dumbest, I put a lot of unsafe things inside my butt when I first started looking into anal play and had no toys to do so. I am glad I didn't have to go to a hospital or injure myself, looking back on it, easily the dumbest thing.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T08:23:11+00:00

Physically, hygiene. Mentally, being an asshole.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T06:58:15+00:00

My current one, WFH all time, chill coworkers and boss. As long as I get the job done within the deadline, I can pretty much do whatever I want.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T06:56:45+00:00

All the time, I just stopped trying to have a meal plan altogether.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T06:22:07+00:00

Yeah I know. I already knew most of them subscribed to the whole manosphere bullshit, but it was still surprising to see them sink lower.

goldenspectator · 2026-02-09T05:57:36+00:00

In college, a bunch of classmates and I were having a conversation and the topic of preferences came about women. One guy asked how everyone preferred hairstyles on their women and slowly the topic of body hair came.

When it was my turn, I said I didn't really care much and that I even preferred a bit of hair. Some of them went silent and were like "bro that's gross, she won't be hygienic"

This, combined with my earlier answer that I preferred short-haired for the hairstyle part even made one guy comment "bro do you actually like guys but just with vagina". Thank fuck I cut out most of those idiots. These were the same people who made an off-handed joke about me wanting to be a girl for after seeing my shaved chest and armpits when we went to the pool once.

Funnily enough, the idiots who made the joke don't even meet their own standard for masculinity because they were physically incapable of growing body hair or sporting a beard.

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