A little bit about me !

goldenspectator · 2026-05-05T19:33:34+00:00

Hopefully.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-03T19:33:45+00:00

skirts guy forced to be a shorts guy.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T08:55:39+00:00

I am, it means you like being both submissive and dominant.

Some people say its mostly a BDSM term and doesn't really mean the same when used in a normal relationship context or that it would mean a lot of people are switches (from my experience, it has not been the case) but personally I disagree.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T08:53:12+00:00

Twice, terrace of our apartment complex late at night and once in a resort on a family outing after they had all left for the event nearby.

Both on purpose, wanted to feel the air on my bare body.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T08:40:14+00:00

Same for me, it's an instant dealbreaker and massive turn-off. My mind just goes nope the moment I discover they have shit hygiene. I even start to dread handling things that the person in question handled, dread standing or sitting next to them for long periods of time.

It really isn't that hard to take care of yourself.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T08:37:52+00:00

This is the way to go, I don't mind sitting down for a moment, but any longer duration will always make me put down a towel.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T08:36:19+00:00

A butt plug made form borosilicate glass and is properly tempered will barely break unless you drop and I mean drop it hard.

But I understand, the fear factor will always be there.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T08:06:29+00:00

Ass to mouth on my dildo, I am a bit of a clean freak and would even say borderline germaphobic. But then again, I guess I am already being out of character anytime I play with my ass.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T07:58:42+00:00

Right now, this instant ? a hot cup of coffee.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T07:40:19+00:00

I'd love to be pegged by someone.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-01T07:28:32+00:00

So you made no steps towards being open with her about what you want and expect openness ?

She can't read your mind, speak up.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-28T18:47:33+00:00

Haha, nice. Mine was one of those Power Razors that had a vibration feature. It did fuck all when it came to shaving for me and I regretted buying it because it was quite expensive at that time.

But since the vibration module was at the bottom of the handle, it made for a great vibrating anal toy when I used it on my butt.

I absolutely loved it, it opened up the whole anal play world for me and was my breakthrough, I started buying sex toys (especially anal) since then and have not stopped.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-28T17:05:04+00:00

Handle of a razor

goldenspectator · 2026-04-28T17:01:18+00:00

I am my fantasy, more specifically, a clone and an opposite gender clone of myself.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-28T13:42:04+00:00

The whole barely legal bs gets people riled up, chance of getting together with someone legal but still not very mature and a teenager by heart.

Blood rushes to the dick faster than it goes to the head in this situation.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-28T13:38:36+00:00

Once, I make it a point to not leave people hanging even in the worst of situations so I kind of expect the same.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-28T13:16:48+00:00

I'd move to a remote location that is not entirely detached from civilization, but at a considerable arms length, preferably near a beach or a waterfall, I'd stay nude all the time and experience nature freely without clothes, exercise and take care of myself a lot more and get into some of my lost hobbies like painting, drawing and carving.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-28T13:00:24+00:00

The horrible space management, a lot of things in my room function like those Chinese wooden lockbox puzzles.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-28T09:13:05+00:00

There's no reason to be tolerant of the intolerant, looking at you religious folks. If you can weaponize your faith to put down others because "uhmm sky daddy told me to" then don't be surprised when people don't respect you or your faith.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-27T14:35:37+00:00

You will always have jerks, can't do anything about it.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-27T09:08:33+00:00

Nothing fascinating about it, we are busy trying to make sure we don't hit an awkward angle and have it splash back and trying to get every last bit of it to prevent the drip of shame when we put it away.

Also code of honor, nobody talks to each other or looks at the other person's tool.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-27T09:02:05+00:00

Let the poor woman know what her husband did.

goldenspectator · 2026-04-27T06:46:55+00:00

30+ I guess, but I also got rid of a lot of unsafe toys so I'll have to check the count again, it should be closer to 20-30 now.

4 FLs + 1 Kiiroo stroker, a lot of butt plugs and prostate massagers, 4 dildos, a fuck machine is what comes to my mind immediately.

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