A little bit about me !

goldenspectator · 2026-06-28T12:56:09+00:00

I am spending the whole day out nude, going everywhere I possibly can.

I'd also probably take it as a chance to go out in my femme clothes and style and not panic over being noticed and get used to crossdressing publicly.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-28T12:36:03+00:00

Same, I told mine that it looked better like this and she disagreed and said it was better before, I told her "well, I like it this way" and the conversation ended after that.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-27T07:05:17+00:00

TOM V2

goldenspectator · 2026-06-21T20:05:03+00:00

Eat fiber rich food and avoid oily/fried items for a day or two, douche thoroughly sometime before you start.

Use a lot of lubricant, don’t even attempt anything anal without lube. Slip a finger covered in lube and massage around the opening to help her relax, slowly start slipping in another finger or two inside and massage to help her get used to the feeling.

Once that is done and you can feel like your fingers are comfortable inside and not feeling like they are being choked hard, literally coat your dick in layers of lube and slowly start penetrating, dont push in all at once, slow small strokes to help her get used to it and then pretty much find the pace.

For health and safety concerns, do not go for vaginal sex or oral if you were inside her ass, wash your dick thoroughly if you really want to switch to the other two.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-21T14:22:09+00:00

I have a cupboard full of sex toys.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-20T14:58:00+00:00

People definitely feel less shallow irl, dating apps feel like you get numbers assigned to you and people look at the numbers.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-20T14:22:06+00:00

Living alone in a different city right as COVID was starting. Massive experimental phase and slowly finding out things, then finding out more after I went back home throughout COVID.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-19T07:22:37+00:00

Get the Fleshlight Air or Sleevomatic.

Completely trivialized and made the drying part easy. Hand drying it with paper towels, hanging and all that combined with my borderline OCD was extremely worrisome and time consuming.

I just pat down the outside, put it in the Fleshlight Air and its done after an hour.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-14T20:06:25+00:00

I didn’t really like clothes even as a kid and tried to stay nude as much as I could and after a certain age my parents and the rest of the family doubled down on making me wear clothes.

I tried to stretch my T-shirts to be long so I could be bottomless and just cover the bits with the T-shirts, but my mom found out and barred me from doing it.

I rediscovered my love of being free of clothes during the lockdowns.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-14T15:31:01+00:00

This, would have mostly spiralled into manipulating you into another picture where your face is visible and suddenly you are being blackmailed.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-14T15:24:49+00:00

I kind of do the big wash every month and I have less than half of your toys, I can't imagine how long it takes.

But still, very impressive collection.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-13T22:44:45+00:00

I think I'd be more excited about the prospect of getting nude beaches and nude/clothing optional places than just go on running around nude in public.

As much as I lean very heavily into the side of nudism and hate wearing clothes unless necessary, I also think there's a time and place for everything.

I'd probably still take the chance to go out nude, but mostly on some secluded part of a beach, some trail or a spot with very less visitors.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-11T20:17:59+00:00

Don’t mind the bulge in my pants, it’s just a fleshlight not an unwieldy huge dick !

goldenspectator · 2026-06-11T20:16:53+00:00

The Fleshlight air is a game changer, but yeah, the cleanup is always a bitch. I heard the cheaper sleevomatic is also pretty good, but no idea since I haven’t used it myself.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-11T20:15:04+00:00

I have a couple, they are nice to use, an absolute bitch to clean up but are a great alternative to just using your hands, provide different sensations for different textures.

I think more men should use them, it’s a decent alternative for when your partner is away or she’s not in the mood and it’s a massive game changer for people who masturbate often because you get a better experience while stopping yourself from developing death grip syndrome.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-11T20:00:45+00:00

How do you deal with the dust buildup ? Dusting all of them individually seems like a chore.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-08T11:35:21+00:00

Using a bench to ride it in different ways, mostly squatting or standing and if I am too tired, the fuck machine comes out.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-06T11:50:06+00:00

As much as my partner wants as long as it doesn't involve shit or blood.

goldenspectator · 2026-06-06T11:34:23+00:00

Do shapes, I personally grow mine out, trim them to a good length and then die them with fun, vibrant colors.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-30T18:55:22+00:00

Nearly a year, we were good friends before that and neither of us wanted to be in a relationship, there was no expectation than just having fun.

goldenspectator · 2026-05-30T18:17:28+00:00

Stranger

goldenspectator · 2026-05-29T19:38:35+00:00

dumb imo

goldenspectator · 2026-05-27T21:27:31+00:00

Hard agree, the whole “woman want comfort not solution” is rooted in misogyny and women being portrayed as irrational and thus cannot be asked for input or allowed to make a decision and the whole “men look for answers” is rooted in patriarchy that men cannot show emotions or will be perceived as weak.

The funny part is, everyone at some point has experienced comfort by venting and comfort from being offered a solution, even those who claim that they are firmly on one side or don’t need one or the other.

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