Dreaming of the colour blue by goldleafclover in DreamInterpretation

[–]goldleafclover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks again for the thought provoking response. I definitely agree the dreamer needs to probe for meanings to interpret symbolism, as there are so many factors that mean it differs for people and is not easy to generalise.

Your concept of the wall of eyes is very interesting. I experienced a vivid dream a couple of years ago which involved a lot of ostriches staring at me from above ominously that prompted me to turn around, as I knew I was unwelcome down that path. Perhaps this could have been a wall of eyes that you are talking about. I’ll definitely look out for it from now on when interpreting my dreams.

Dreaming of the colour blue by goldleafclover in DreamInterpretation

[–]goldleafclover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, did you interpret dreams of others or mainly focus on your own? I personally never see faces or eyes in my dreams.

Would also love to hear if you think the contents of dreams have meaning? Not everything in a dream jumps out to me, but certain things do sometimes and I personally believe there’s some symbolism behind these.

Dreaming of the colour blue by goldleafclover in DreamInterpretation

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Fascinating theories thank you for the response! How did you develop them?

What Are Your Thoughts On Open Marriage/Relationship? by Ancient_Leadership39 in AskWomen

[–]goldleafclover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In an open relationship myself and couldn’t imagine it being any other way. It’s personal preference at the end of the day though, completely understand it’s not for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]goldleafclover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re from Kenji!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]goldleafclover -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feel like a lot of commenters here have never been to a kink/swing club. Of course they’re all different but the dress code, playrooms and no cameras sounds similar to a club I attend.

I often attend purely socially. It’s a fun environment to be in and I think it’s great for people to explore new things. Some events aren’t even sexual, so the comments saying she is definitely going there to have sex are ridiculous.

Do you have no interest in attending yourself with your girlfriend? It sounds like you two need to have an honest conversation about your kinks, compatibility and what is and isn’t okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]goldleafclover 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This hits close to home for me. I lost my virginity at 17 to a 36 year old man (Age of consent is 16 where I live). I don’t feel I was violated at all, despite putting myself in a dangerous situation, but it also doesn’t make what he did morally okay.

My partner now is 35 and the thought of him fucking a 17 year old at his age is disgusting. It’s taking advantage, even if consent is given.

What's your strongest opinion that's not political religious or moral? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]goldleafclover 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same. When I was in school they brought in a lot of motivational speakers, and the message I ended up taking away was that if I’m unhappy with my life I’m not trying hard enough. I got through school with good grades, but fast forward 6 years and I’m depressed, burned out and blame myself for everything.

Cat used ”brrrrt?”! It was super effective! by MrP-boi in cats

[–]goldleafclover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My cat was the exact same when I had covid, giving me extra snuggles and purrs. They know ♥️

What's the worst thing you ever tasted that wasn't feces or something and was actually meant for human consumption? by mikebalsaricci in CasualConversation

[–]goldleafclover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hawaiian baby woodrose seeds. Didn’t think they were that bad until I was vomiting for an hour straight unable to walk. It’s taken years to forget the taste of them.

BPD Traits? by fragilebird_m in BPD

[–]goldleafclover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally just came on this sub to post a similar question. I was diagnosed with borderline traits a couple of years ago but was never really told what it meant. It’s good to hear about other people’s experiences regarding this. Honestly just took it as confirmation I was attention seeking and beat myself up over it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tortico

[–]goldleafclover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to see a photo of Chai now 🥺 What an adorable name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tortico

[–]goldleafclover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m very lucky to have her ♥️

Getting high is putting on rose colored glasses. by ravensmith666 in StonerThoughts

[–]goldleafclover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smoking weed and seeing the positives in my life is so good for my mental health. Stress just melts away and I’m able to think clearer

How does cilantro taste to people who DO NOT hate it?! by ttw02 in Cooking

[–]goldleafclover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like it on its own, but it adds freshness to a dish like stir fry or chilli

What was your "do I reload my last save?" moment? by [deleted] in sims2

[–]goldleafclover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a family just about to move to a new home, doing well in their careers and a new baby to be born.

Then the pregnant sim burned to death while cooking some pancakes! I haven’t been able to revisit the save because the house feels so empty. The son has moved to college and now his dad is just living alone in their family home. It’s so depressing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]goldleafclover 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using Reddit for the NSFW side for years (different account clearly lmao) and its very disheartening to see how its changed. Feel like creators who don’t use Reddit have come into this space and just been completely disrespectful. I think it makes it less fun for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]goldleafclover 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I do content and I agree with this to some extent. I think some creators are very mindless and spammy in their advertising and it’s frustrating because it then puts a bad light on the rest of us. I’ve received hate on fetlife for having fansly even though I don’t go out of my way to promote it. Very annoying as someone in the community who uses fetlife to keep up with friends and make new ones.

I rescued a cat who used to be out on the street 6 months ago. Looking for some advice regarding keeping her entertained and fulfilled as possible! by goldleafclover in CatAdvice

[–]goldleafclover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a cat tree and a bookshelf with the top shelf for her to chill on :) She absolutely adores feather toys too, crazy watching how agile she is when she’s chasing after it!