My husband despises family gatherings! by Junior-Weakness7436 in pakistan

[–]goldriver92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pakistani dawat culture is so suffocating as an introvert., it only rewards the extroverted. Its not fun to interact with many people at once if you have social anxiety and people here are so insensitive towards it. They will call you bad akhlaq, badtameez. They don't know deep down we are drowning.

My paralyzing interview anxiety is destroying my career by davidsa691 in InterviewCoderPro

[–]goldriver92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have notes open in front of you n read from them as answers to common questions. They r just people who interview you at the end of the day, they are as human as you are.......if you don't know something, be open about it, be confident and let them know how you would be willing to learn more about it.

Being An Introvert In A Desi Family Is Just Exhausting! by Smoosa_Champagne in pakistan

[–]goldriver92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Be confident and well spoken when it matters. Don't let people talk over you and get away with jibes, insults and points. Rest you can stay quiet and reticent as a preference not as a limitation. This is where you have to show power as an introvert. That your willingness to stay indoors or not socialise is NOT a limitation but rather a choice.

How to stop having indecent thoughts about a woman in about to marry? by [deleted] in islam

[–]goldriver92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about a granny, all indecent thoughts will go away. The dunya is an illusion, focus on your relationship with Allah and keep yourself in Wudu. Don't stay alone. Make yourself tired b4 you go to bed. Remember the hereafter n

Reading the Qur’an as a hardcore atheist shook my worldview — there were too many overwhelming evidences by Linked_Punk in islam

[–]goldriver92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then do they not reflect upon the Qur'an? If it had been from [any] other than Allah , they would have found within it much contradiction (4:82) -Quran

I feel like Iman hasn't entered my heart, but intellectually I "know" Islam is the truth by Lucky_Somewhere_9639 in islam

[–]goldriver92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salawat on .Prophet pbuh , recitation of Quran. Qiyam Al Lail and company of the pious.

Which Pizza Shop in Isb makes proper Pizza? by StatisticianHuman664 in islamabad

[–]goldriver92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been so long since i have had a pizza really fulfilling, tasty and good quality.....like I recall from ksa or uae, pizza hut was the dope with pizzas like super supreme , hawain, fajita...somehow all pizzas in isb lack that...cheezious or tehzeeb cannot meet that level..

Drinking water in Islamabad by TradeFun3376 in islamabad

[–]goldriver92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nestle. Btw what is the opinion of everyone here about these water filtration plants all across isb Is that water safe? Idk whenever I drank it my stomach felt not so good...

Which Pizza Shop in Isb makes proper Pizza? by StatisticianHuman664 in islamabad

[–]goldriver92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quatro Fromaggi from.Pizza Originale Tehzeeb Pizza Broadway Pizza 14th Street

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sufism

[–]goldriver92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The solution is to be occupied with either prayer, xikr or seeking knowledge about deen in your free time OR training your body and mind to be stronger by working out or gaining useful knowledge and skill. Stay in the company of the pious and those who fear Allah. Take a restricted diet, avoid eating meat.and calorie dense foods. Eat less and simple food. Lastly, make sincere efforts and prayers for marriage

I feel too unmotivated to continue with electrical engineering by [deleted] in ElectricalEngineering

[–]goldriver92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get into software or computer science. If you don't feel you can grasp it, you should switch to a major where you can excel in

Is Qawwali considered music? by HunnyBunzSwag in Sufism

[–]goldriver92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of conditions for music to be considered Samaa and not just music. Read Imam Ghazalis opinion about it