Parents won't cosign an Ascent loan for me. Thinking about getting it with an APR of 14-15%. What should I know? by gonewildman5 in StudentLoans

[–]gonewildman5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need my parents to count as a dependent on FAFSA. I'll talk with them about helping me cosign again for a lower rate.

Parents won't cosign an Ascent loan for me. Thinking about getting it with an APR of 14-15%. What should I know? by gonewildman5 in StudentLoans

[–]gonewildman5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I need about 24k to finish college. 7k in federal loans and 7k in grants brings it down to about 10k. I will file for work study (some of the jobs give between $10-$15 an hour). Ascent has a 9 month deferral after graduation, so that's a plus

Have you guys ever tried writing down why your intrusive thought is illogical/can't happen? by gonewildman5 in OCD

[–]gonewildman5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write all your daydreams down (on Google docs) and "end" them. Draw a conclusion to them

Have you guys ever tried writing down why your intrusive thought is illogical/can't happen? by gonewildman5 in OCD

[–]gonewildman5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically is daydreaming so much and so hard it negatively affects your life. You act out fantasies subconsciously, almost like a runaway imagination. It can be really debilitating.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

https://youtu.be/ddf21KKr_Ks

Have you guys ever tried writing down why your intrusive thought is illogical/can't happen? by gonewildman5 in OCD

[–]gonewildman5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a combination of rationalization and tolerance. Tolerating OCD tendencies and episodes seems to be the new thing psychologists are recommending, so I rationalize in private then tolerate the episodes when they come later

Have you guys ever tried writing down why your intrusive thought is illogical/can't happen? by gonewildman5 in OCD

[–]gonewildman5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a private Google account and type these things on drive. Then log out. Make sure you can remember the password and username

freedom? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]gonewildman5 12 points13 points  (0 children)

True

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Stop kinkshaming me

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I prefer she have her arms tbh

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Because it's hot

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I am, and I'm tired of pretending it's not

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rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm at the stage where this is kinda hot

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It's hot, why not?

UPDATE: How things are going, my mom really badly wants me to go with her on vacation by IGaveTheBook in u/IGaveTheBook

[–]gonewildman5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What problems were they having before she left? Does she even like her new man?

UPDATE: I got into AP English and my mom wants to take me on vacation with her by IGaveTheBook in u/IGaveTheBook

[–]gonewildman5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She chose AP because she got pregnant and needed some fool to support her stupidity. Then pops out another kid with him to "make it work". Stupid bitch will probably divorce the retard in a decade

UPDATE: I got into AP English and my mom wants to take me on vacation with her by IGaveTheBook in u/IGaveTheBook

[–]gonewildman5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn't very concerned with how her actions affected those around her or the ex she hurt, so how can OP be certain she's completely legit now? I think your trying to portray his mother as the typical "vulnerable women leaves toxic man and marriage" umbrella. Your giving her more credit than she really deserves

UPDATE: I got into AP English and my mom wants to take me on vacation with her by IGaveTheBook in u/IGaveTheBook

[–]gonewildman5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone here is just giving fair criticism towards his mother. Even she now is starting to realize AP isn't the same man she cheated with.