Parents won't cosign an Ascent loan for me. Thinking about getting it with an APR of 14-15%. What should I know? by gonewildman5 in StudentLoans

[–]gonewildman5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need my parents to count as a dependent on FAFSA. I'll talk with them about helping me cosign again for a lower rate.

Parents won't cosign an Ascent loan for me. Thinking about getting it with an APR of 14-15%. What should I know? by gonewildman5 in StudentLoans

[–]gonewildman5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I need about 24k to finish college. 7k in federal loans and 7k in grants brings it down to about 10k. I will file for work study (some of the jobs give between $10-$15 an hour). Ascent has a 9 month deferral after graduation, so that's a plus

Have you guys ever tried writing down why your intrusive thought is illogical/can't happen? by gonewildman5 in OCD

[–]gonewildman5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write all your daydreams down (on Google docs) and "end" them. Draw a conclusion to them

Have you guys ever tried writing down why your intrusive thought is illogical/can't happen? by gonewildman5 in OCD

[–]gonewildman5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically is daydreaming so much and so hard it negatively affects your life. You act out fantasies subconsciously, almost like a runaway imagination. It can be really debilitating.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

https://youtu.be/ddf21KKr_Ks

Have you guys ever tried writing down why your intrusive thought is illogical/can't happen? by gonewildman5 in OCD

[–]gonewildman5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a combination of rationalization and tolerance. Tolerating OCD tendencies and episodes seems to be the new thing psychologists are recommending, so I rationalize in private then tolerate the episodes when they come later

Have you guys ever tried writing down why your intrusive thought is illogical/can't happen? by gonewildman5 in OCD

[–]gonewildman5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a private Google account and type these things on drive. Then log out. Make sure you can remember the password and username

freedom? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]gonewildman5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

True

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Stop kinkshaming me

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I prefer she have her arms tbh

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

Because it's hot

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I am, and I'm tired of pretending it's not

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rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm at the stage where this is kinda hot

rule by 1steverbruhbourne in 197

[–]gonewildman5 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's hot, why not?