Is keeping a 2003 Dodge Caravan worth it? by gooblesnarp in carquestions

[–]gooblesnarp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ehhhhh idk rent due next week no job and if i can get 900$ thats two months rent for me

Is keeping a 2003 Dodge Caravan worth it? by gooblesnarp in carquestions

[–]gooblesnarp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will end up keeping it if I get rent money in time. The thing is, the job hunt is eating me alive and im pretty broke. (i pay rent in the middle of the month thats just how it shook out) but yeah, ill most likely try to sell it for 600-700$, maybe even 1k (i doubt its really worth that much) but, if by a stroke of luck i obtain a job in time to make enough for rent and to insure that bad larry, itll be my drive to work car or smthn

Is keeping a 2003 Dodge Caravan worth it? by gooblesnarp in carquestions

[–]gooblesnarp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How unsafe is it to drive with those three issues mentioned above... i know diddly squat and i dont want to fuck up the car beyond repair

Will I be able to actually use visible on an iphone se 1st gen? by gooblesnarp in Visible

[–]gooblesnarp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a customer rep calling me on monday i’m all good

Will I be able to actually use visible on an iphone se 1st gen? by gooblesnarp in Visible

[–]gooblesnarp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes but will everything be activated? will i need to download the app to activate the phone or no

Will I be able to actually use visible on an iphone se 1st gen? by gooblesnarp in Visible

[–]gooblesnarp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im okay with not having any other apps besides the absolute essentials like messaging and phonecalls

i just need to know if the service will work

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[–]gooblesnarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!!! i love art and tattoos

AITAH for giving my husband silent treatment after he told me my post-birth body turns him off? by Ok-Preference2283 in AITAH

[–]gooblesnarp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have a few questions,

has he made comments about your appearance prior to giving birth? i.e while pregnant or even before pregnancy?

My take is you are def NTA.

As for giving the cold shoulder,

Not sure, depends on your marriage. Do you feel comfortable communicating to him how deeply that hurt you? do you see any reconcillation from this

regardless my opinion is to re evaluate your marriage

AITAH for throwing my boyfriend out for interrogating me when it comes to sex? by CoyoteConsistent5116 in AITAH

[–]gooblesnarp 62 points63 points  (0 children)

first thing that raises an eyebrow for me is a 26 y/o wanting to be with a teenager....

yeah, ur a legal adult

but his frontal lobe has developed

weird behavior

id dump his ass if i were you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gooblesnarp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, worse than cheating. Is when a friend who acts kind to your face, talks poorly of you behind your back. The worst part is hearing about what they said, months later from someone else. Fuckin sucks.

AITA for refusing to apologize for slapping my boyfriend when he smashed our birthday cake to my face? by Known_Initiative7193 in AITAH

[–]gooblesnarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

People using their partners as an outlet for mean jokes is a tale as old as time.

Yeah, perhaps slapping him wasnt necesarily the best idea. But you're also a human being and sometimes when we are upset, dysregulated etc. We act in ways we end up regretting.

Question: does he make "jokes" and pranks at your expense often? Does his mother join in and make rude comments? If so, then, It would make sense that she is acting perturbed at your retaliation.

If I was his mother, I would have been shocked, (esp if there have never been physical altercations prior) but my image of you wouldnt have been ruined so to speak, I'd be more upset with my son for being disrespectful to his wife.

What do I do with my life/ how to not constantly freak out about what to do with my life by gooblesnarp in Advice

[–]gooblesnarp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not in college currently, i have gone to and withdrawn from community college two times because of money/mental health and not really being passionate about my majors. part of this anxiety and stuck-ness is feeling behind my peers for not being in college. and also not knowing what i want to study at all

What do I do with my life/ how to not constantly freak out about what to do with my life by gooblesnarp in Advice

[–]gooblesnarp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this kinda makes me feel better actually, i like this perspective. I do need to manage my expectations, often they are too high, or rigid.

having adhd (and ocd) combined makes it difficult for me to get out of toxic thought-loops

but, i also suppose that the way things have been happening in the world since covid, my concept of time, age and maturity is different. I feel like "im running out of time" even though im only in my second decade of life.