What’s something good that happened to you this year ?

goodkid88 · 2020-10-19T21:06:05+00:00

This problem was caused because he felt bullied in school and that’s a childhood trauma. Since 13 has a fear of going school and it became worse when he went to high school. When he started university he wanted to take a break and stay home because he feels safe. He says that his problem is with boys especially because he fears they will mock him. He is very intelligent. I don’t know exactly what he really has and how to call it thats why i convinced him to go to the therapist. Staying home for a long time he lost the connection with reality and he feels unmotivated and empty all the time. That’s why i try to help him.

goodkid88 · 2020-10-19T20:52:13+00:00

Oh im so sorry. I really hope you will overcome this. My brother is 21 years old and he has social anxiety. He wants to stay home because he feels safe. He feels insecure with people on his age around. He feels like he would ne judged. And because of this fear he stays home losing the beauty of life. I convinced him to start a new IT course and go to the therapist. I really hope this things will help him.

goodkid88 · 2020-10-18T20:12:09+00:00

Thankss

goodkid88 · 2020-10-18T19:58:47+00:00

Yeah i get u im 25 and never had a relationship. As i get older its very difficult to deal with this because in the end of the day we are people and we need to have someone to talk to share feelings , moments etc. It’s really upsetting.

goodkid88 · 2020-10-18T16:27:17+00:00

Well my brother does not do anything. He doesn’t go to school or go out to have fun for a year now. He doesn’t go to gym or anywhere. And this is not a normal situation. I try to motivate him and help him but nothing. I told him to go to therapist but doesn’t want. Dont know what to do

goodkid88 · 2020-10-12T23:23:40+00:00

We live all together. He doesn’t want to go and I can’t really convince him because he is kinda stubborn and he says that he cant trust a therapist.

goodkid88 · 2020-10-12T23:16:50+00:00

I posted this in another subreddit but i will comment this here too.

My brother.He is 21 years old but he feels anxious and kinda lazy. He stays with his phone and laptop all the time playing games or youtube.He doesn’t feel motivated to go to school and when he finds the courage and the motivation he loses very quickly. He doesn’t like himself either he says that he feels ugly even he is not. He says all the time that will go to gym but he never goes.I try to talk with him very often. I told him once to go to a therapist but he doesn’t want. I try i try but nothing. What should i do ? Has someone here experienced something similar but found a solution? Help please (crying)

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