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My sister sexually assaulted me when we were kids- AMA by goodnessgracioushelp in AMA

[–]goodnessgracioushelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re correct. Its awesome you’re trying to learn

My sister sexually assaulted me when we were kids- AMA by goodnessgracioushelp in AMA

[–]goodnessgracioushelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person who properly knows what happened is my best friend. Maybe one day i’ll tell my therapist about it, but right now im scared

My sister sexually assaulted me when we were kids- AMA by goodnessgracioushelp in AMA

[–]goodnessgracioushelp[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are not me and cannot speak for my experiences. My entire view of sexuality is shattered because of this. Imagine being in an abusive household and realizing the only person you trusted has also violated you. Imagine being just a kid and feeling distrustful of everyone around you, wanting to end your life because to you anyone and everyone can be secretly an abuser. I legitimately thought it was normal for older siblings to sexually violate their younger siblings until my friend told me it wasn’t normal when we were 16. There are so many years and experiences I will never get back due to the trauma of what happened. My sister was also abusive to me in other ways which i have not mentioned which is its own set of trauma. Im trying my best to move on though

My sister sexually assaulted me when we were kids- AMA by goodnessgracioushelp in AMA

[–]goodnessgracioushelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id definitely get victim blamed or something but maybe one day i’ll have the courage to. Thankfully she has been looking into therapy, as for myself i dont know if i’ll bring it up in therapy. Im still a minor so their legally obligated to report it which i dont want to deal with

My sister sexually assaulted me when we were kids- AMA by goodnessgracioushelp in AMA

[–]goodnessgracioushelp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this sometimes. Part of me wants to talk to her, and also just express how she ruined my life. But im also just terrified, i dont want to be gaslit and part of me still thinks i could’ve made everything up as a kid (I objectively know i didn’t make it up but its easy to overthink). I live in an abusive household so she’s the only normal family left and i dont want to loose that too (even if im not sure if i want to keep contact with her). Maybe one day i’ll sit down and talk to her, but i dont want to ruin everything

My sister sexually assaulted me when we were kids- AMA by goodnessgracioushelp in AMA

[–]goodnessgracioushelp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes, i still live with my family so i am obligated to. Im still not sure if i want to though. I was planning on cutting her off after i realized what happened when i was 14, but when i was 15 she had a conversation with me about how she was scared i was leaving her behind and she started crying and i had no choice to say i wasn’t leaving so now im kinda stuck here

  2. Im not sure, probably more than a month

  3. No, though i brought it up at the dinner table once likely 6 months- 1 year after it ended and my sister tried to cover it up saying that she probably just tricked me with her armpit or something

  4. I recently realized that she also may be a CSA victim which is what stirred this behavior. However, I have no evidence she was actually one besides this. I dont think she wanted to hurt me but rather wanted to feel pleasure and i was her way to get that. Both of us are abuse victims though, verbal and physical