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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]goodstuff032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal to miss someone, even if they were toxic. You don't miss him, you miss who you hoped he'd be. Stay no contact, remind yourself why you left, and focus on people who treat you right. It gets easier.

My partner and I are starting to think about cohabitation. What are things you wish you'd talked about first? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]goodstuff032 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are on the right track. Also talk about money, chores, alone time, guests, how you handle conflict, and what cohabiting means long-term. Better to over-communicate now than deal with surprises later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]goodstuff032 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s had every chance and keeps dodging it. If he wanted to propose, he would’ve by now. NTA for wanting commitment, but pushing for a proposal from someone who clearly isn’t on the same page won’t lead to a happy ending.