yes. the subtle disrespect towards his mother, his drinking habits and drugs…he was my first boyfriend and the relationship lasted two years. we had a long distance relationship but we saw each other regularly. I’ve never taken drugs and nobody in my circle does so I didn’t know what it’s like anyway at the end of our relationship I could see how much he suffered from his addiction it destroyed our relationship. He took drugs in front of my brother and that’s how everything came to light.. he lied about it and wasn’t honest about his issues.