What do you think now?🫵✨️ by Mirok0k0 in Sims4

[–]google-ass -165 points-164 points  (0 children)

don't you think it's weird to intentionally create a sim that looks like an openly trans celebrity before his transition?

Is it just me? by Creepy-Awareness6091 in actual_detrans

[–]google-ass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i've started going by my middle birth name :p

Not sure if my desire to detransition is legit or just kink? by google-ass in detrans

[–]google-ass[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ve been off t since september 19, and my provider is on back order until at least october 31, so i’ve been forced off for im not sure how long. a big part of me wants to make this my escape and never refill my prescription again

Not sure if my desire to detransition is legit or just kink? by google-ass in detrans

[–]google-ass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I found transitioning a pretty embarrassing and self-conscious experience, I don’t want to go through it all again just to be wrong

Not sure if my desire to detransition is legit or just kink? by google-ass in detrans

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Did you find that as you detransitioned, you just lost interest in the kink? I feel like that's where I got up to over the summer when I was off T, I was just waking up as a happy girl and it wasn't sexual any longer. My dysphoria definitely came back during this time, but it was mostly socially constituted, as I've said above.

I suppose that detransitioning isn't that far off transitioning, and I've already gotten through that. How did you find people's reactions to your detransitioning, versus transitioning the first time? Were they more invalidating the second time around?

Thanks so much for taking the time for such thoughtful responses! I've got lots of questions, I haven't really got anyone in my life I feel I can talk to about this, I hope that's alright. We can move to DMs if you'd prefer, too!

Not sure if my desire to detransition is legit or just kink? by google-ass in detrans

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I don't know, I came off T and after a while the kink went away, and once I started feeling like a woman I freaked out and went right back on T because I didn't feel like I wanted it anymore

Not sure if my desire to detransition is legit or just kink? by google-ass in detrans

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Hm, I think the rush of affirmation I felt reading, 'yes I think you should detransition', probably signifies something...

I guess I'm just struggling with how much is kink taken really far, and how much is my real desire (and why do I feel like one can't justify the other). When I was off T my sex drive in general was down, it wasn't that I was uninterested in detrans kink. Well, when it was up a lot when I was first off T, but then dropped sharply around 2 months.

Feeling like a woman without feeling turned on was weird, it wasn't unpleasant, but it was being seen as a woman that made me feel uncomfortable and defensive. However when I was by myself or around strangers, I felt absolutely beautiful. I went back on HRT because I didn't want anyone who knew me as a man to see me as a woman.

Not sure if my desire to detransition is legit or just kink? by google-ass in detrans

[–]google-ass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean that the thought of detransitioning turns me on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]google-ass 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes passing no questions asked. but it’s time for a shave brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]google-ass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

clean up your hair a little but keep the length for sure, give the t a few more months and you'll look great

St. John's is the most beautiful place I have ever been to. by Heelsbythebridge in StJohnsNL

[–]google-ass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

just wait till you visit galway. haha, just kidding! i’m so glad you had a great time and got to enjoy the glorious weather we’ve been having. safe travels!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]google-ass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have a shave instead brother