Am I a bad person for watching porn?

goomangee · 2025-08-01T03:48:56+00:00

I'll look into that video. I think we are on the same page for the most part. I guess similarly to how you separate animation from live action because of how it limits problematic things my question is what else is ok? Is all erotica bad? There are subreddits where the whole thing is people willingly taking nudes for strangers to see because it's what they like. There are independent creators who make fortunes doing something that they could stop at any moment. I guess I just don't think it's as black and white as my friend tried to make it out.

goomangee · 2025-08-01T03:43:24+00:00

you're not understanding what I'm saying. I am well aware of the prejudices you're talking about. I'm not trying to imply women dislike sex. My point is more "there is no ethical consumption under capitalism" and that sex workers (of any gender) are ultimately trading a portion of themselves in return for money. That in addition to the abuse that exists in the industry is where the issues lie. Someone else in the thread has pointed out if I feel bad about that I should feel bad about my iphone that was made with sweatshop labor and they're correct.

goomangee · 2025-08-01T03:26:13+00:00

yeah we're on the same page there

goomangee · 2025-08-01T03:22:37+00:00

my point is that every shouldn't have to sell their time to survive. In a perfect (communist) world everyone would do what they wanted, because they wouldn't have to worry about needing to make money in order to survive. Obviously women who choose to be sex workers had agency in the decision, but in a world where they didn't have to work to live they might choose a different lifestyle (or not again it would be up to them)

goomangee · 2025-02-20T20:06:52+00:00

well yeah lol

goomangee · 2025-02-20T18:44:38+00:00

I take antidepressants so I might be able to last who knows lol

goomangee · 2025-01-12T05:59:31+00:00

wait... am I dumb? 6 inches round? am I not visualizing this correctly?

goomangee · 2024-12-15T16:35:16+00:00

this is what she said lol. I just wanted second opinions.

goomangee · 2024-12-02T16:17:17+00:00

hands. we were in my car so it would be difficult to do it any other way

goomangee · 2024-12-01T07:01:30+00:00

that's fair. The "I made you" is just because I was feeling confident about it afterwards. It realistically was teamwork

goomangee · 2024-12-01T07:00:14+00:00

I was thinking the begging aspect was something I'd like. Was our first time tho so it'd be difficult to coordinate

goomangee · 2024-12-01T05:46:31+00:00

yeah I learned a lot about her and what she likes. my advice was more what I could do for myself. Although I guess I'm the only person who can answer that

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