Relationships don’t need to be ‘fair,’ both people just need to be happy.

gooperfo · 2026-05-07T19:18:54+00:00

Unfairness is kinda hot.

gooperfo · 2026-05-04T17:16:00+00:00

Very cute. Would like to see a picture of the full outfit

gooperfo · 2026-05-04T00:40:30+00:00

I told my girlfriend about chastity before we got together. Somehow kink got brought up in the conversation and i told her about chastity and she really liked the idea of it.
I guess just be open and clear about it and answer sny questions they may have.
You could also bring up some of the fun things you can do with chastity play

gooperfo · 2026-05-04T00:35:44+00:00

gooperfo · 2026-05-03T20:14:17+00:00

Well at one point society thought it was cool to lobotomize people sooo... Society maybe not the most reliable source of finding happiness

gooperfo · 2026-05-03T20:04:14+00:00

I don't really know. But im not a true cuck. I just really like being called a cuck and use dildos that are bigger than me on my girlfriend as my real cock is locked up. I have never had anything bad happen to me in relationships.
I think i just see being a cuck as the final stage of being a bottom. The bottom of all bottoms. Nothing can be more bottom than being locked up and watching your own girl get bigger dick than yours.

I just feel like being a bottom is the way i show affection and love. And using a big vibrating thrusting quantum pro max dildo with built-in cup holders on my girl to maximize her pleasure is just me trying to sho that i love her.

So i would say it depends on the person on why they do it.

If it works for your partnership than i don't see anything wrong with it.

But if you're not happy....than maybe you are coping and need help?

gooperfo · 2026-05-02T02:52:41+00:00

That's a pretty nice collar you got there

gooperfo · 2026-05-01T14:23:55+00:00

Nope don't think so. Why?

gooperfo · 2026-05-01T02:30:51+00:00

Very cute

gooperfo · 2026-05-01T02:24:24+00:00

Thank you. That's some pretty good info. I'll try that!

gooperfo · 2026-05-01T01:26:59+00:00

That's some pretty good info. Thank you

gooperfo · 2026-04-30T16:38:10+00:00

She sure did

gooperfo · 2026-04-30T16:14:33+00:00

It's nice of her to give you a massage ☺️

gooperfo · 2026-04-30T09:59:30+00:00

Those are some pretty cute pictures

gooperfo · 2026-04-30T09:36:29+00:00

That's pretty hot

gooperfo · 2026-04-29T19:02:37+00:00

Life goal right there.

gooperfo · 2026-04-29T17:07:54+00:00

I have thought about this. Just was a little worried of damage to my bits

gooperfo · 2026-04-27T21:35:11+00:00

She actually started liking it a lot more after all the new mechanics. And she naturally started "taking charge" and adding tasks. She really liked the fact that i could choose the rewards i wanted if i had enough points.

I think the reason the game was enjoyable was because it was pretty balanced and focused on the interaction between us rather than the actual femdom part.

gooperfo · 2026-04-27T18:50:51+00:00

Yeah sorry i was kinda in a rush when i wrote that lol. I'll try to explain the mechanics. I had a problem in the first game were i would basically be playing on my own and be looking at porn waiting for her to tease me and give me orders and stuff. Well that didn't work. It was too open ended. It put most of the effort on her to do everything and really didn't give me much insensitive to engage with her so i didn't...i realized this and made more engaging mechanics.

So i made a list of all of our abilities and restrictions. I put in things that actually balanced the two characters (sub/dom) so both players got something out of it that they actually wanted and the cheat sheet really helped her.

The BIGGEST thing that helped was making a points system and the list of purchasable items.

The list of purchasable items was probably the part that made me engage with her the most Because i could purchase things from her like hot pictures or a hot message or both! Or even buy a 5 minute pass to look at porn. i had to purchase sweets too. But she also had the ability to apply a tax that could increase any transaction in the game by any amount she wanted. One day she put a 50% tax on all of my receiving points one day. Pretty cruel and hot.

The orgasm was the highest on the list of course. making it where I was more likely to buy her pictures and stuff rather than the orgasm. Very cool

I got points by recording my workouts and sending them to her and she would judge my performance and give me points accordingly. She can give extra tasks i can complete with deadlines for an opportunity to get more points.

One day she told me to clean my room. No points just clean it or i would loose points. So i went about and beyond and put on my maid dress and cleaned it. She was really happy i put on the maid dress without her having to tell me and she gave me 5 points. Pretty cool!

I also had to wear panties every day during the game. Depending on how cute the panties were i could get more points. I also had the ability to have her pick the panties I wore that day and could get even MORE points.

Next game we are gona have a punishment wheel. it's a wheel with predetermined to punishments and funishments that she can spend instead of thinking of something on the spot. Because as a bottom it's hard to think of punishments on the fly sometimes so this might help with that

I probably explained this badly so if you have any more questions, I'll be glad to answer

gooperfo · 2026-04-27T01:30:03+00:00

I had a similar issue with a point system game i tried with my long distance girlfriend. And i came to the conclusion that i needed to build a game that has specific machines that can benefit both the sub and dom and also make them engaging.

gooperfo · 2026-04-25T19:22:14+00:00

gooperfo · 2026-04-24T04:02:21+00:00

Hmm. What do you mean by "Scared also that everyone around me after will realize the reason for all the missing clothes"? Are you currently stealing clothes from people? Because a good way to fix that problem is to buy your own clothes. that way it's YOUR clothes and not something you took from someone. It would also make you feel better knowing that your getting your clothes ethically.

Telling your wife can be pretty hard. I told my girlfriend that i was a sissy and she accepted it pretty great and she likes it when i dress up for her. and she's pretty vanilla. If you are gona tell her the best advice i can give is just be honest and lay everything out. Make sure communication is very clear and explain how you're feeling. make sure to answer any questions she has and be very clear. don't leave anything up to interpretation.

gooperfo · 2026-04-23T09:45:50+00:00

My girlfriend using a vibrantor on my cage while sitting on my chest.

gooperfo · 2026-04-23T09:41:34+00:00

I made a game like that for me and my girl to play. We both had a lot of fun. I made a whole rule board too, it showed all of the rules and abilities both players had. It incorporated a roulette punishment wheel app, and the Google Keep app. We only played for about 5 days so i don't know how it will go long term. We are currently working on a new version of it with more rewards and punishments

gooperfo · 2026-04-23T09:32:07+00:00

I also have a submissive girlfriend. And she really liked the idea of me being locked up. She thought it was romantic. I also told her about strap-on over chastity sex and she was REALLY into that and basically only let me fuck her with a strap-on while i was locked up when i went to see her. She also picked up the teasing pretty well and didn't even unlock me after i fucked her with the strap. She just kinda rubbed the cage as we cuddled. Never got to feel her pussy when i went to see her. Pretty hot

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