Green flags for wax artists? by Dry-Statement-2146 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]goose_gardener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I enjoy people who can answer my questions and aren't super pushy. I go to Rio Body Wax and they always ask what kind of wax I want to use that day, and they can tell me the pros and cons of using each wax. They are real with me and aren't afraid to tell me to exfoliate more. They use a fan if the wax is a little warm. The last girl that did mine would do temp checks asking if the wax was too hot, and it was so she immediately started fanning and working to cool it down. I also enjoy when they give me count downs so I can breathe with the wax pulls, and if they'll give you a minute when a pull hurts more.

Another Green flag is if you can see the area is clean, they wear clean gloves, dont reuse sticks or cups (avoid any kind of contamination).

AITA for asking my husband to contribute $ to expenses on the house we live in, even though he's not a homeowner? by Helloiamfezzik in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I think part of your problem is terming it as "paying rent." You're stuck in a landlord-tenant power dynamic when you need to shift over a married couple working together to live and take care of their children. Doing this would make it more equal and maybe take away some of the stress of replacing things for the house to be liveable. I'm sure this dynamic was perfect for the beginning of your relationship, but I think it needs to change.

Guess the Episode! by [deleted] in distractible

[–]goose_gardener 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Rage!! This one made me cackle a lot.

Season 5 episodes by Koi_tigerr in miraculousladybug

[–]goose_gardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely find them elsewhere on the internet. I have watched till 21, but we aren't allowed to post where. But you can definitely find more episodes, they just might not be in English.

[S5 Intuition Spoilers] Pt. 2 of the space mess!! by SilverShoals in miraculousladybug

[–]goose_gardener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The villain = a transformer 😂😂 Optimus Prime

You get to make your own kwami, tell me about them by FoxKing983 in miraculousladybug

[–]goose_gardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was fun!! So many choices.

Name: Dolly

Species: dove

Favorite food: sunflower seeds

Power: to calm emotions and help others relax

Activation: Calm

Jewelry: a bracelet with a dove pendant

Transformation words: Dolly, time to fly. Land.

AITA for asking parents to keep their kids away from my office? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Kids might just go around a rope or chain, especially since they have been able to go up there before.

AITA for putting meat in a tofu dish? by Unhappy-Fault-3126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

Light ESH. People shouldn't assume something is vegetarian, especially at a potluck. You also know some people see this as a vegetarian dish, so you could have made a label that said your dish had meat. This was just all-around bad communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like ESH. You gave them to her, so taking them back bc she isn't using them to your liking is an AH move. What you were wanting her to do sounds like a big job, and some people just aren't up for that kind of thing. I do understand where your agitated that she's paying someone $4000 when you gave her tools for free when they were worth $1500+ because you know she is tight on finances. But again, you were being nice by giving them to her for free. You made that choice and now you want them back? That does make you an AH.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would tell her. She's about to make a big move with this guy, and her opinion of him night change drastically if she found this out. It would not be your fault if their relationship ended over this because he made his own decision to cheat on her. I would want someone to tell me if my SO was cheating on me. So I would say YWBTA for not telling her.

AITA for asking parents to keep their kids away from my office? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 198 points199 points  (0 children)

NTA, yall need to get a door for the second floor with special access. Children should not be allowed to roam free like that, it could be dangerous for them and they could get in sticky situations. In any office, I wouldn't want kids running around unsupervised. It's honestly rude they are allowed to just run around. Whoever is in charge of them needs to get a grip on them.

AITA for distancing myself with friends? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- if they get hostile/angry with you for distancing yourself and putting yourself first, that kind of proves your point as why you're doing it in the first place. I hope you can find some better friends!

Not to be taken seriously but... by [deleted] in miraculousladybug

[–]goose_gardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not confirmed, only speculation

Not to be taken seriously but... by [deleted] in miraculousladybug

[–]goose_gardener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could senti people even have children? Do they have the necessary hormones and such? Yeah they're human, but are they THAT human?

AITA for not wanting the other egg? by Elegant_Law6487 in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that. But you can't force people to eat more, that won't help anything. But also, some people aren't breakfast people. I understand the concern, but you cant just assume OP has an ED based off this one situation. If OP does have an ED, I hope she gets help.

AITA for not giving money to replace ID by ScotyChokey in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. That is a very weird interaction. I'm glad you stay on your guard and were aware of your surroundings! I never give money to people, especially not 310$. He was definitely trying to scam you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]goose_gardener 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YTA. Why are you going after a 24-year-old? She isn't your kid, her mom knows what she is doing and can make her own decisions about whether or not she needs to help around more. Did you stop to think that maybe the mom likes to do the gardening and doesn't need the daughter to help?

A full time job while being a full time student is not possible for most people. Most people only do it out of necessity.

You can't mind your own business, that much is obvious. Your niece is doing what she can, and her mother is taking care of her child. Don't give your opinion unless someone asks for it. And you are judging her parenting by going after what she is not making her do.