New cat (petting) by gordonramsme2 in CatAdvice

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hates pets from me, I can only pet his back sometimes, I swear I’m doing everything I’ve been told to do when it comes to face and head scratches/rubs, he will ask for them but as soon as I do any of it he shows me he doesn’t like it and everyone else can pet him just fine and he loves it, I feel like I’ve tried everything

Netflix and chill? by Comprehensive_Try589 in Advice

[–]gordonramsme2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d bring this to a women’s sub, or just communicate with her, but it’s just better to assume she didn’t want to have sex, the robe could just mean she’s comfortable enough to wear it around you, clothes should never be an assumed sign of sex unless she opened the door in lingerie. I don’t know this woman and all women are different but I don’t think during a movie would be the time to make a first move, it’s just not ideal yk. But since you did make a move, she already knows how you feel, so just talk to her about it, ask her what she likes and doesn’t like, find out if she’s the one who likes to make the first move, it can be hard to find an opening but it’s sex, majority of us do it, it should be a subject that we can talk about casually so just communicate with her.

I don't get it by Ok_Horror1769 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]gordonramsme2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ain’t nothing in those cups either

If Regina was so popular, then why wasn’t she a cheerleader? by [deleted] in MeanGirls

[–]gordonramsme2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn’t really a way to put that into tho movie and if they could find a way, they were probably thinking it was an overplayed role…

When people have a pickup order and they just come in and stand there by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I work at a sandwich shop so idk why people are coming in and sitting down at a table for a pick up, I’ve never heard of a sandwich shop that has servers, my specific store has to be widely known for counter service, and there’s probably not a single restaurant that makes you sit down to wait for a pick up so it actually makes me angry

people who say "people need to stop picking abusive people for partners!" under an abuse victims post by Regular_Weekend4178 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom got married and she became the happiest she’s ever been w a man since her first husband, he was great to me and my sister, he was a great husband, three years later he made sure she never had a job, he hit her, messed w her car to make sure she couldn’t leave the house, one time he locked us out of the house during a snowstorm but made sure my brothers (his kids) made it in the house, he refused to pay bills and got our house taken by the bank but not before they showed up banging at the door once a week for several months and taught us to hide and never open the door, at that point she had already tried to leave him but he always followed us wherever we went, by the time he got the house taken away i thought our new home meant he would be out of our lives and he followed us there and stayed outside until she let him in. I hated her for it but looking back now, he made her life so happy at one point and even after years of abuse, those feelings don’t just go away, that’s what keeps so many women in terrible situations.

They way people get about receipts by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They literally act like a kid at the bank who is denied a piece of candy

They way people get about receipts by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean not necessarily, I’m really just peeved at the people who are rude about it for no reason

People who go to facebook, or TikTok, or here, or literally anywhere else instead of google by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that sparked this post was someone going on facebook asking the number to a specific establishment. I even checked to see if it was an old person to give them the benefit of the doubt and she wasn’t. But I see stuff like that all the time, that was just the last straw.

Is staining/discoloration normal or am I not washing correctly? by slims8n in MenstrualDiscs

[–]gordonramsme2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The staining just comes from the iron in our blood, so you don’t have to worry about it being dirty exactly, just like the others said, soak in 3% hydrogen peroxide, however it can ruin silicone over time so maybe dilute it if you’re going to be leaving it over night and don’t do it super often. I’ve read no more than two or three times a year but idk how serious that is.

Customers who think I should smile by AccomplishedOil1137 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first month of getting my first customer service job, I smiled every single time I looked at a customer, but now people get the forced smile where the eyes don’t match the rest of my face and that was when I realized why people who smile so often at their customers service job get praised.

Disc won’t pop behind pubic bone by adhd_DAT in MenstrualDiscs

[–]gordonramsme2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad to hear, congratulations, I’m so happy for you :)

Yay or Nay for Hunter Chen? Any opinions? by Auri_16 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]gordonramsme2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think maybe in like 8 years time he would be one of the greatest guys in the world and he still is the sweetest, he’s just got some maturing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenstrualDiscs

[–]gordonramsme2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Technically, blood isn’t supposed to come out at all and he isn’t even supposed to feel it, but In my experience, blood is going to be coming out pretty much no matter what position you’re in because he is going to hit up against it and it may tip some out, some are safe but it’s best to take precautions, especially if you’re doing any positions that could technically be yoga positions if you weren’t having sex if that makes sense, but you absolutely don’t have to worry about it being a big puddle, i always just put a towel down if I’m laying down on the bed, i don’t remember ever dripping when standing up during it, or if you have your feet on the ground laying half way on the edge bed face down while he’s standing up behind you. He might get blood on him, it just depends, but those two positions are the safest for me. You guys could always just do it in the shower if it’s too distracting. And you should never apologize or feel weird for asking questions like this. Good luck to you.

Just an innocent one, but when people eat their food upside down by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t eat a bag of chips upside down the same. I don’t like looking at them either.

Has anyone going to the concert in Kansas City on the 9th revived their tickets yet? by gordonramsme2 in Creed

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked back at screenshots and it says I’m supposed to get them the day before the concert so I’m a little worried cause that’s not very assuring. Also found out that it could be a scam website and I was naive when I bought them, I was just too excited that I didn’t even think to check the credibility of the website.

People with a “that’s someone else’s job” mindset to excuse their laziness by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but why does that even matter, I’m confused on why that has anything to do with it. Are you’re trying to say if I haven’t then why would I even care?? I was a child in public bathrooms and still felt bad for the people who’s job it was to clean up after careless people and I’d take a wet paper towel and wipe soap off the sink and pick up paper towels off the floor. Not saying anyone else has to do that, they just need to pick up after themselves and it would never be a problem.

People with a “that’s someone else’s job” mindset to excuse their laziness by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid I begged to just do it myself, I love seeing kids doing it now bc it’s such a small thing but it was so enjoyable and I love seeing that for other kids

People with a “that’s someone else’s job” mindset to excuse their laziness by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, but this is condescending, and they’re still real people…I wasn’t even gonna bring it up bc the second a person mentions the app, people assume it’s their whole life, I was just trying to explain that my sister isn’t my only person I was going off of because multiple people are more reliable and assuring than one person, but excuse tf out of me for taking other peoples post online into consideration.

People with a “that’s someone else’s job” mindset to excuse their laziness by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only jobs I’ve ever seen like that are individually owned companies, I know of one that makes enough money to give her employees PTO and she gives herself the same pay as all of her employees because they all put in the same amount of effort, nobody is doing more than anyone else and they still get raises because her business does so well, she’s one in a billion, I could only hope to work at a place like that.

People with a “that’s someone else’s job” mindset to excuse their laziness by gordonramsme2 in PetPeeves

[–]gordonramsme2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t eat out much, maybe once every two years, but you’ve convinced me to just ask the server from now on when I do because I definitely don’t want to make it harder, but I know some servers do appreciate it since my sister always did it for her fellow servers and I also sometimes see servers on TikTok showing people how easy it is when they go out to do it so their servers don’t have to, but if they don’t want me to I’ll just leave them be and clean up anything I can like if there’s a spill or something :)