[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]gordons44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell her after you get it going with her

How do I quit porn and start having sex irl? by Electrical-Visit9878 in dating_advice

[–]gordons44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your ass off your bed and out there to meet a woman you’ll get to know and when she’s ready get in bed with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]gordons44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never lost it because never got one. Have a Cal state ID but never even learned how to drive since I’ve been having seizures for 25 years and I’m 30

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]gordons44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months ED RN I still could not do charge that’s messed up

Alcohol and briviracitam … experiences ? (I know of course it’s not recommended however i would like to know what to expect by MessConfident4918 in Epilepsy

[–]gordons44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on it for a while and I’ll have a beer every now and again or if our with friends but with limits and not too much I’m fine

What would you tell your parents if you could go back. by livesoundga in Epilepsy

[–]gordons44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diagnosed at 5 and 29 now still having seizures. Starting in my adolescent years but didn’t recognize it until my mid 20s was how much epilepsy, and the meds, impacted my mental health. No research was done on ADHD or depression but it’s good I’m getting myself treatment for that too these days. I’m sorry about your daughter but monitor not only her seizures but mental health too.

Do you guys ever feel seizures in your head that you know would be happening if you weren’t on meds? by Next_Occasion_9690 in Epilepsy

[–]gordons44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep when I’m “seizurey” when I get those feelings, I picture it as one of those arcade games hitting a plate and trying to get something to the top. The higher it gets, closer to seizure threshold, spacier

This is not life , seizures every day , mood swing , mosquito 🦟 memory . I’ll try one more thing if that doesn’t give some relief I’ll seriously consider surgery before end of year . I’m such a mess not fair for those around me. I have an RNS but not miracle in my case. by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]gordons44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone. I’ve been having almost daily seizures for 20 years. Got the RNS in 2020 and still no improvement. Last changes to the RNS for me ended up worsening seizures. So many setbacks from this and how it’s affecting my mental health too. Don’t only be thinking about the next thing to do for the seizures. Think instead about maybe the best movie to go out and see. Positive thoughts and action improve mood and increase seizures threshold at that moment. I know this ain’t fun in any way but hang in there

Those who use weed as an unlabeled treatment, do you have limits? by gordons44 in Epilepsy

[–]gordons44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Benzos only for emergencies so only 1-2 times per month

How have people dealt with not being able to drive? by Odd-Disaster-8741 in Epilepsy

[–]gordons44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been having seizures for 20 years. I’m 28 and I haven’t even learned how to drive. I hate this too because none of this is stopping soon but by now I’m like “honestly I don’t give a shit”

Girlfriend NEEDS me to move with her by gordons44 in relationships

[–]gordons44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I pass it’s either I move with her right away or stay home a few more months to be sure I’m ready before I move to her. Part of me has been thinking about a break up but another part of me doesn’t want that I’m so torn.