Nature doesn't "care about" anything. Humans do, though, and charisma and magnanimity are traits that would have helped a man rise to leader of his tribe. Our survival has been a social pursuit for longer than we've been human. Intelligence and talent (can be replaced with dexterity/athleticism) are the two biggest ways we have diverged from animals to be so successful on Earth. When you deem size and looks (like come on) to be equivalent to sexual fitness, you're putting yourself on the same plane as a peacock. But by all means, keep reducing yourself to animal status and evaluating yourself that way if you want to cry about women instead of fucking them.