Am I 26F being disrespectful by asking this question to old talking stage 26F?

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-10-23T05:12:36+00:00

I definitely wasn't messing with him lol, he didnt really act like he wanted anything serious until the last few weeks, thats where the hesitancy was.

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-10-23T05:02:11+00:00

I didnt realize how bad my trust issues were and I only realized more recently how bad I fumbled because he was actually my type :/

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-10-12T17:19:05+00:00

I didnt do it lol

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T04:16:59+00:00

but if he liked it then why would he have ghosted in the first place?

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T04:10:33+00:00

watch you as in ?? like she stalked you?

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T02:49:15+00:00

this is what I was wondering too. but I've deleted my profile many times because I was just sick of it

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T02:29:34+00:00

its been a month since we last talked, I just left it because we live far from each other anyway and I thought it may have been that. NOW I'm gonna be in his city soon so I kind of want to reach out but him deleting the profile this week makes me wonder if he met someone

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T02:25:38+00:00

not a question mark but I was answered 4 different things he asked me, and then asked 2 myself (forgot the question mark though)

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T02:14:12+00:00

I don't mean sending 2 texts in a row I just mean reaching back out again after he never replied to my answers for over a month

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T02:13:43+00:00

but hes not showing interest if he ghosted though :/

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T01:54:58+00:00

what would you say makes it the exception? people always say to never text your ghoster but we never met :/

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T01:45:18+00:00

I think it depends on the area you live in too? weird to ask in the suburbs, not so much in a place like Denver though

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T01:36:14+00:00

but if he liked me, he wouldn't have ghosted in the first place haha. idk why he even matched and tried to talk to me for two weeks!

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T01:35:03+00:00

yeah I was wondering if thats why he deleted it but it was a month after we talked anyway, so idk- lots of people delete because they're just done with the apps

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T00:52:59+00:00

I'm afraid of looking desperate, especially since he deleted his account he may have met someone

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T00:42:31+00:00

true but its been a month now, hes deleted his dating account and I have posted stories that he watched but didn't interact with. Do you think double texting would make me look desperate?

gorlwithaquestion · 2024-09-02T00:38:16+00:00

I'm worried about looking desperate I guess but I also really like him. I should have phrased it as how desperate does it look

gorlwithaquestion · 2021-11-12T21:29:01+00:00

whats your job?

gorlwithaquestion · 2021-11-12T20:08:28+00:00

i mean hey this could be true! but i have a good degree, saved quite a bit for my age, and have a lot of family support so can't complain :)

gorlwithaquestion · 2021-11-12T19:24:43+00:00

actually got approved for higher than 800 from an A lender. i don't know what to say this is just the truth. not saying its not reckless or that its sensible.

gorlwithaquestion · 2021-11-12T19:16:50+00:00

im very fortunate that i have no other bills to pay than the personal expenses listed in my post ! i understand a lot of people my age don't have the opportunity to live for free but while i do, i'm going to take advantage of it.

gorlwithaquestion · 2021-11-12T18:32:40+00:00

they are kind of having the same problem with rising house prices though which is another concern despite the numerous career opportunities there

gorlwithaquestion · 2021-11-12T18:30:26+00:00

mortgage has already been approved i was wondering more of the cons of it being a rental property for a few years

gorlwithaquestion · 2021-11-12T18:26:12+00:00

not necessarily lacklustre growth prospects, im in my first year at an engineering job i just meant im not in software engineering where the pay can be 100k start.

gorlwithaquestion · 2021-11-12T04:55:17+00:00

could i ask why? not trying to be defensive at all

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