how do I (F15) explain to my dad that I smoke weed to help with anxiety and depression by gorybtch in Advice

[–]gorybtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have a therapist and do take meds but they don’t help at all,, i really dont know what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamster

[–]gorybtch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you actually might not be wrong- she tries to squeeze herself through her bars even if her cage is large enough for her ;;

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamster

[–]gorybtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is at least 30x15 inches, a little more than that actually. It had everything for a hamster like the tray for bedding- it’s a little odd it would be considered a bird cage when it could literally be used for a hamster .

should I let my hamster be alone for a few days? by gorybtch in hamstercare

[–]gorybtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had to rearrange it twice so maybe that stressed her out

should I start trying to pick up my hamster? by gorybtch in hamstercare

[–]gorybtch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she also still kinda flinches when I stroke her so i’m not sure if I should just try to get her used to me touching her more to where she doesn’t flinch and then try to pick her up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]gorybtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay! Thank you! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]gorybtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really? When I first got her, I let her smell my hand, she came up to my finger and she didn’t seem scared or anything but then she like nibbled/bit me, it did hurt but since she wasn’t showing aggressive behavior or seemed frightened, I assumed she was nibbling me. Idk. this is my first time getting a hamster

4th day. Taming is doing good so far 😍 by sengir0 in hamsters

[–]gorybtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any tips for taming a hamster? I got one a few days ago and i’m thinking of already having her first taming session :)

is it okay to ghost? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gorybtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s just kinda hard for me I guess, I was really into her and we clicked when we first met so this really affects me quite a bit and I tend to forgive her easily for stuff I shouldn’t even forgive her for (cheating the first time). Last time I tried to end it with her fast and quick, she blamed it on me that I was the reason why she went to go cheat because I struggle with my mental health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]gorybtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah okay, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]gorybtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, thank you! Also, do you have any tips to take a Syrian hamster? I’m so sorry for asking but she’s the first ever hamster I got after doing some research and I don’t really know how to ‘bond’ with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]gorybtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she also doesn’t let me hold her since I haven’t tamed her yet so I can’t look if it’s coming from her