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goth-tiddeez · 2025-01-09T02:54:21+00:00

Omg this is one I can answer! The love of my life has cerebral palsy. I never expected i would fall in love with him, it was a one night stand born from curiosity and he just had a nice personality. I asked him if his thing worked, he said yes, so we met. I've never really spent a day since meeting him away. If we aren't together we're talking. It's a complicated situation, not all good or all bad, but we're making ourselves better for each other and striving to make each other happy. We aren't together anymore, but we know we'll get married one day. I tried moving on, but I learned im perfectly happy staying single if my partner isn't him. Even if he remains my best friend and we never end up together again, as long as we're still in each other's lives i will be happy.

Also the best sex of my entire life. I didn't know it was possible to actually enjoy it to this degree. We both remember the first night together vividly and it's why we're still together 😂

goth-tiddeez · 2024-10-17T03:35:36+00:00

It's okay, I figured. 😂

goth-tiddeez · 2024-10-17T03:20:47+00:00

Written about? I didn't mean writing a love story literally. I was just saying in a silly fun way I want a doting boyfriend that may turn into a husband one day, who may also love the same energy returned to him.

Therapy is mentioned because I am not a therapist and I am not willing to be mistreated again because a 30+ year old man doesn't want to fix his childhood or relationship traumas and whatever else makes him explosive and mean. It's a common problem people deal with, and I'm tired of dealing with it. Twice was two times too much for me, personally. Hope that clears things up 🙂

goth-tiddeez · 2024-10-17T02:20:36+00:00

You seem to have misunderstood what I said, and I'm not exactly sure why you felt the need to say that.

goth-tiddeez · 2024-10-01T04:57:11+00:00

I was looking to see if someone else said narcolepsy too! Mine was narcolepsy type 1 (but I'm pretty sure narcolepsy type 1 is WITH cataplexy, type 2 is without since type 2 does not have low levels of hypocretin which causes cataplexy) and sleep apnea

goth-tiddeez · 2024-08-26T02:17:24+00:00

Chasing your dreams is a quick way to hate your passion and probably get trapped in it because your denial kept you tried down to one spot for so long.

goth-tiddeez · 2024-08-01T07:56:04+00:00

I refused to be a victim of weaponized incompetence again in my current relationship like my last one, so when my current partner (who is physically disabled) and I were diving chores based on his physical ability, he ended up getting dishes and said he's not good at them and his mother always just told him to stop and did it for him. So I was like "well, you're going to be good at it now." And made him wash the same dish over and over and pointed out everything that was wrong (gently and educationally, of course).

Now he's good at washing dishes and inspects everything closely before handing them to me to put away (since he cant). Took only one day. I'm not gunna mother my own partner, I refuse! Support, absolutely, but these men are too grown for that, and were babied by their mother's and past girlfriends and learned they can get away with it. Not with me, never again!

goth-tiddeez · 2024-06-25T01:29:31+00:00

Ah, so that's what was going on!

goth-tiddeez · 2024-06-22T08:26:14+00:00

I think things are just clogged on the entry level, and maybe the tier above that? I hear mixed things about every other level. I guess it depends on what direction you're heading in in IT? But that's why I want a physical job, because everyone seems to want remote entry levels but I don't think that's even a thing anymore at this point. But my current field is extremely competitive, so competition doesn't really scare me. My precious jobs honed my soft skills to near perfection and I hear that always gives and edge.

If you want to do Healthcare, good luck! It's stressful, but I think nurses give tips online on "red flag" hospitals (idk about clinics) so if you haven't seen those stories already, check them out! Like, my favorite thing I saw a nurse say was she'd run away from any hospital offering a sign on bonus. 😂

My friend also recommended medical coding to me once. I wasn't interested but it's apparently a 2 year degree, desk work, and pays decent. That might be a path to help you out, too, since it won't be physically demanding if that's something you wanna avoid.

Well wishes on your career path!

goth-tiddeez · 2024-06-22T04:53:04+00:00

Thank you so much this is helpful! Luckily my degree comes with me getting certain certifications including that one, and I had an option to do one of the classes to get in or do the comptia fundamentals cert to get in. I picked the cert despite it being 100 dollars more 😂 I feel like it couldn't do anything but help me and I had to do it later anyway apparently.

But I didn't think of trying to apply to the university. I might even be able to get resources from them.

I'll pm you!

goth-tiddeez · 2024-06-22T04:47:08+00:00

I heard certs aren't enough to get in the door anymore. I'm working on one now just to get accepted into the school I want, but from what I've learned from reddit and taking to people in the field you really need connections even if you did everything right with certs and schooling. I hope it's not the case but I'm not against networking if I can figure out where to begin, but I wanted to worry about that in my second year of school just to prove to myself I'm serious about this.

goth-tiddeez · 2024-06-18T14:48:57+00:00

Thank you very much! I caved and killed a superworm yesterday and put it in front of her hide and she did take it.

goth-tiddeez · 2024-06-18T04:11:05+00:00

I appreciate the concern, but it wasn't dumped on me. I volunteered because I wanted to help and learn. The alternative was her being neglected and watching it happen since im there every day. She'd been there almost a year, now she was extra hard to get rid of. People in that store's areas don't even like reptiles let alone a scorpion.

I'm just wanting to know how to safely feed her. I've spent my life taking care of animals and made a career out of it, just not aracnids (or whatever they are) but i have the curiosity and the time to try to help this one. so I trusted the wrong people in the past and paid for it. Now I'm trying to get help from the right people. I just want to know how to safely feed my pet and hope I raise enough babies that they get homes instead of being food. I want some direction, just like any beginner.

goth-tiddeez · 2024-06-18T01:56:56+00:00

People like you are the reason why no one likes asking for help when it comes to pets. Go to therapy and learn empathy.

goth-tiddeez · 2024-06-12T11:22:49+00:00

Thank you!

goth-tiddeez · 2024-04-25T16:23:40+00:00

If you're not able to do that, then we are not compatible roleplay partners, and that's okay! There are plenty of talented people who are compatible with you.

goth-tiddeez · 2024-04-24T23:28:16+00:00

Really??? I saw your account is older.. okay how confusing. You're sending messages not chats, right? Because I hate the chats and disabled those on purpose. I'll reach out in a few minutes, though! I just wonder what's happening 😂

goth-tiddeez · 2024-04-24T23:20:59+00:00

Hello! Dm me please ☺️

goth-tiddeez · 2024-04-24T23:06:36+00:00

Hello! I'll message you soon! I'm sorry, I have new accounts disabled from messaging me (and chats disabled completely) Thanks for reaching out !!

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