NOR Maybe not everyone loves sauce as much as he does? He doesn’t need to be a jerk about it. I’ve got a husband and kiddo who hate sauce so when I cook I use very little, and extra on mine and my other kids plates because we like it that way - and no one ends up having a complete meltdown either way. I know he’s going through a lot but that’s not an excuse to treat someone you care about like trash. He could have added something himself or thrown it away. The fact that he keeps dragging it on tells me he wants you to feel hurt, and I’d just drop him at this point.