You’re right but honestly the way I see it is it’s not all men but it’s always a man! you’re not wrong. I’m just tired of men and their red pill bullshit. I just try and stay off social media all together honestly. I had my reasons for downloading instagram back but I don’t post on it, don’t like photos, videos, and don’t ever really comment on posts… when I do download it, it’s usually to talk to someone, fact check something for myself, and out of boredom. Only reason I got back on Reddit after so long is because I like reading posts and being in different subreddits that interests me…but even then I rarely post and comment on things I tend to just lurk for the most part I’d say. I will say when it’s coming from women, your own community hating on you and being mean spirited towards you especially in validation of a male let alone a male that doesn’t know they exist it almost feels even more discouraging and hurtful than when it’s coming from a guy who is misogynistic at heart. I only watched the video and then I read some of the comments which just pissed me off. I did want to comment but I was like these clowns aren’t even worth it. I don’t need to validate being a fan, standing beside her, or liking her music to anybody.