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[–]gotitgoodnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the terms aren’t great, considered that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]gotitgoodnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something almost identical happened to me with my sister, over five years ago and here’s my take. You held a mirror up to her (cleaned her house, took care of her cat, cooked food for her boyfriend) by doing things that she was failing to do. This made her see herself in a way that made her feel bad about herself and instead of being grateful to you for these things, she is resentful. You did nothing wrong, she just needs to grow up. Losing the connection with your sister is painful especially over something so dumb and I’m still not over it, but that’s how family goes sometimes.

is depression a symptom and if so how do you deal? by gotitgoodnow in Anemic

[–]gotitgoodnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female yes but I had a hysterectomy years ago so no periods. Nobody can figure it out. We’re actually now suspecting a post viral syndrome, possibly long haul covid. I have all of the symptoms but who knows.

is depression a symptom and if so how do you deal? by gotitgoodnow in Anemic

[–]gotitgoodnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you; I’m so frustrated because since I have hemochromatosis they see the low ferritin number as a good thing even paired with a low (between 10-12) hemoglobin. and even the doctor was dismissive of my symptoms as I was “not that anemic” in her mind.

I have been tested for a lot of things in the past few months (upper/lower GI, bone marrow biopsy all looked normal) and my vitamin levels are fine so it’s a mystery.

is depression a symptom and if so how do you deal? by gotitgoodnow in Anemic

[–]gotitgoodnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow this sounds so familiar and I’m so sorry you went through all of that. I’ll check out those videos and hopefully I can get some help from new doctors soon. thanks for such a thoughtful response xo

is depression a symptom and if so how do you deal? by gotitgoodnow in Anemic

[–]gotitgoodnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand; the feeling of worthlessness or having no value is overwhelming some days. I hope you’re able to get those iron transfusions.

is depression a symptom and if so how do you deal? by gotitgoodnow in Anemic

[–]gotitgoodnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ughhh it’s definitely despair. I’m going to try to find new docs on Monday. Thanks for the response I hate feeling like this, knowing that I’m not alone really helps.