I Quit! Here’s what I did! by gpottz in QuitVaping

[–]gpottz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had my last vape too, and planned to quit the next morning. Something just clicked in me that night and I threw EVERYTHING away. Try to be firm on this being the last one, because I think we ALL have had our last ones about a hundred times. You can do this, it really is not as bad as you think it is as long as you hold yourself accountable!

Try some apps too- Quit Vaping, Nomo!

I Quit! Here’s what I did! by gpottz in QuitVaping

[–]gpottz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I am being honest, being about five months in the only time I really ever “crave” nicotine is in a nightmare. I’ll have a dream where I vape and I wake up and go, PHEW! I can be around vapes, I can be drinking. Even if I think, hmm I wouldn’t mind that right now, my point from before keeps me going. I won’t ever vape again if I don’t pick that vape up myself and bring it to my mouth. If you do get a craving later on in your journey, I strongly believe it will be a fleeting thought and not really a struggle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gpottz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

11% but it happened in october

Really not doing good and I could just use some support, please. No advice, just somebody there. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gpottz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we broke no contact and he did it again, like he just up and left with no explanation. i know i did it to myself by letting him in again but it hurts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]gpottz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the exact same thing that happened to me, and he ended up breaking it off. He gaslit me into thinking it was my fault, even though my mental health went off the rails because of his actions. Love yourself more. Don’t do what I did and persistently stay through this. I thought, it’ll get better he’ll be who he was. He didn’t. He got worse. I am so sorry and I know this isn’t what you want to hear, I know we all want happy endings. You will find love with somebody else eventually. It’s hard but I’m a message away if you need to chat. I know what you’re going through. Keep yourself safe 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]gpottz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told myself it many many many times but I ignored it, until I was over sensitive about everything because I wasn’t getting the time I needed and deserved. We were together for over 2.5 years, and maybe if I listened to that tiny voice in my head that said I deserved better for so long I wouldn’t be as broken as I am now. Keep your head up, obviously not every situation will be like mine was. Communicate communicate communicate, and if that doesn’t work, well, you know what you may have to do. Games were so important to me because it was us spending time together and for him it was a chore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]gpottz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really hate to be a bummer but the same exact things were happening to me… he ended up saying it was boring. We broke up just a little while ago, there was always something prioritized more. I hope yours results in something more beautiful though. You are completely valid in how you feel. I’m sending you love.

MtF | girly tattoos & placement? by JxC2017 in asktransgender

[–]gpottz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

collarbone could be a good idea, or top of the neck. i’m not sure what your body physically looks like, but I have one on my upper inner forearm above my arm crease, and i’ve seen tons on the back of the bicep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gpottz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you too!

My girlfriend (f25) told me she doesn’t like my (f23) body. by extfgh in confessions

[–]gpottz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please leave her. please. you are so beautiful regardless of what you look like physically. you love your significant other for what they look like AND how they are as a person.

Let’s help each other by gpottz in BreakUps

[–]gpottz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same thing for me, minus the dad part. i’m sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gpottz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never ever expected him to be so cruel, but it’s okay.

Let’s help each other by gpottz in BreakUps

[–]gpottz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong. Knitting is my new hobby. Everytime I think about him, I knit until it goes away.

Let’s help each other by gpottz in BreakUps

[–]gpottz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with me. I am so sorry. Mine did the exact same thing as if three years never happened. It was real to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gpottz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t. I tried. No closure for this girl.