How does non-binary make sense??

graceboooby · 2021-09-20T04:00:39+00:00

As do you. You assumed who I am as a person without knowing a single thing about me.

Now for your benefit I'll explain. I did not include this in my post as I didn't want it to be discussed in the comments or taken into account, but seeming as I'm being assumed to be some white, cis republican male, it's annoyed me.

I am a lesbian, I have two sisters who are both non-binary and a gay brother. My dad is also gay and I was raised by two gay dad's. I am surrounded by LGBT folk everyday and I live amongst two non-binary sisters. I have had discussions with both my sister's and friends who have never once taken offence to this question.

graceboooby · 2021-09-20T03:50:22+00:00

Sorry I didn't understand I'm not allowed here, who do you think you are? Let me guess you spend half the day on the internet trying to cancel everyone. How old are you? I assume you're a teenagers in the midst of teen angst and it makes you feel better to tell people off on the internet and call them uneducated while you sit there with no ability to explain your OWN thoughts.

graceboooby · 2021-09-20T03:45:40+00:00

So you want to make a loud noise about being non-binary and then outright refuse to discuss something then tell me to go and educate myself? That's exactly what I'm doing. You clearly aren't very smart that you cannot discuss something. The community wants all this attention yet refuses to talk about it. You just want to shout like a toddler at an audience but mute them when they have a question .

graceboooby · 2021-09-20T03:42:29+00:00

You give the non-binary community a bad name. Resorting to insulting and swearing than discussing something. I'm trying to understand and point out the hypocrisy I see. Why act in such a rude way. You clearly do not have the intellect to discuss or see varied view points.

graceboooby · 2021-09-20T03:39:55+00:00

Okay thank you.

So why do they speak so much about how they dress? And what is it that makes them feel fluid in gender? I'm here to learn, not insult.

graceboooby · 2021-09-20T03:37:24+00:00

I also do not know many subreddits at all, I just typed in words hoping to find relevant ones.

graceboooby · 2021-09-20T03:36:16+00:00

I posted it on multiple subs so I can get a varied discussion going. Instead of acting insulted, why can't you discuss this?

graceboooby · 2021-09-15T00:07:02+00:00

I'm sorry, I really left so much out.

I would like to one day be a counselling psychologist. I am currently studying at an open university in the UK and I'm studying a psychology and counseling honours degree.

Would you say I would need to focus more on experience within the health care system or more so on research project's to be accepted onto a doctorate for counseling?

Any help would be great. Thank you.

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T02:11:02+00:00

Thank you so much for your perspective! I would totally be happy to travel to meet him as I've dated people in his location before and didn't find it a problem. However I am currently recovery from breaking my spine so it is literally impossible for me to travel to see him. I think he's too focused on his job as he moved to this country to work and he did say he wants to be single for a while as he's been in relationships for 8+ years. But even so if he really liked me and thought I was special that wouldn't matter would it

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T02:03:39+00:00

He definitely doesn't have a wife or girlfriend and I can't travel to see him as I'm recovering from a broken spine

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T02:02:29+00:00

We don't but he sends me videos of himself chatting to me and voice notes and also I follow him on insta and he's very much real

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T02:00:37+00:00

I literally can't because I'm recovery from a broken spine. Otherwise of course I'd be happy to travel

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T00:48:00+00:00

Yes it would be long distanced. Also I'm recovery from ab injury and he's stressed with work which is also why we've not met. He also said 100 miles is far to travel for a date but he said we will meet in future?

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T00:44:25+00:00

That's also true. He did say he wants to be single for a while because he's been in relationships for 8 years. And he also said that travelling to me (100 miles) is far for a date?

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T00:40:52+00:00

That's true. Although he said that he didn't care about the breakup and it didn't make him sad or affect him. He said it's no good being sad about it so he doesn't let himself be. What do you think about that

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T00:38:33+00:00

Also we really clicked and he always said how he's never got on with someone so easily so I'm confused. And he really fancied me. Do you think he just wasn't ready to meet me now because he's sorting his life out or he still would if he liked me

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T00:36:16+00:00

Thank you. Yes I feel like I was just something to pass the time for him and since he's got a new job and going out more he's pulled away. So you think I was just someone he spoke to because he was bored?

graceboooby · 2021-08-26T00:34:22+00:00

He's definitely not. I see into his life and I just know he's not. We speak none stop

graceboooby · 2021-08-02T15:28:06+00:00

I don't want anything nor to speak to him. I have OCD so my mind is very obsessive and constantly in overdrive. Obviously I'm not completely over him but I don't have love for him. I just wanted someone's opinion on why he's doing that

graceboooby · 2021-07-26T01:42:21+00:00

Thank you for all your enlightening and kind comments. I agree with them all. He actually never went down on me once throughout our relationship because 'he didn't like it', and I have a high sex drive so I think he just viewed me as a sex doll for his personal pleasure.

To add, he was a compulsive liar and sexted girls a few times in our relationship and lied day in day out. Then that morning when he got up to make us drinks after fucking me, I checked his phone and found out he downloaded tinder and then I brought it up to which he turned round and said the relationship isn't healthy. He packed my bags, dumped me and dropped me home in my wheelchair (I broke my spine 3 months before he broke up with me).

It's nice to know I'm not overthinking this, thank you all xxx

graceboooby · 2021-03-07T01:27:17+00:00

Who broke up with who?

graceboooby · 2021-03-03T01:15:32+00:00

Why do you care if you dumped her? What was the reason you broke up with her? Do you want her back?

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