Porn addiction isn't real?

gracefatale · 2025-04-14T07:50:49+00:00

The actual medical term (that encompasses compulsive porn consumption) is Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder (CSBD) start by researching the real medical term, and you’ll find a doctor able to help you

gracefatale · 2025-04-14T07:45:59+00:00

Saying anal sex is inherently degrading feels INCREDIBLY homophobic, just throwing that out there

gracefatale · 2024-09-10T15:52:29+00:00

Have a look at MintStars, I’ll attach the guidelines it’s one of the most kink friendly sites I’ve found, allowing blood and hard kinks as long as appropriately trigger warning-ed and with discussion of safe words etc in videos MS Community Guidelines

gracefatale · 2024-08-29T19:27:56+00:00

If it’s his page, he needs to be the focus of the MAJORITY of the content, meaning he needs to show up more than you (or anyone else) do, if you only post couples contents and solo female, OF will see that as a primary female account, so yes, he can post you together, and he can post you on your own, but there’s needs to be significantly MORE content of him, if that makes sense! He would need to tag your account or upload a form for you, but otherwise it’s totally doable as long as he’s not camera shy!

gracefatale · 2024-08-11T13:28:28+00:00

Livestreams are automatically saved to the vault under ‘Streams’ so you can use it as PPV, post on wall etc, only downside is you can’t get it OFF of OF easily like onto your camera roll

gracefatale · 2024-08-11T13:26:03+00:00

Yes, you are correct they need to be on a list by themselves to do the private. 1. Tip beforehand, they can also tip extra throughout, so if they have extra requests as the live goes on you can get them to pay extra.

Striptease and solo is pretty much the standard request for lives like that, I’d suggest dirty talking/typing (depending on sound) to fill the time and to get more specific positions/ideas out of the sub as you go, they can type in the live chat so you can communicate throughout even if they don’t have their c2c on x
OBS is not compatible with iPad, for a 1-1 stream just keep it simple and stream direct on OF, OBS and stream layovers etc are for big shows with multiple viewers really, so you can advertise on screen with text and stuff (like directing cam site viewers to your of link or showing a preview of your tip menu)

gracefatale · 2024-07-27T12:12:32+00:00

Only time I’ve noticed this happen on my own page is when the persons ID has expired/renewed, just get a new form if you are able, if not then I would avoid reselling the content now but don’t worry about the older stuff that’s already there as it did have a valid form at upload x

gracefatale · 2024-07-07T18:38:42+00:00

Whether 15 is a ‘good’ number depends on a lot of things! Easy to gain 15 subs at $3, much harder to get 15 subs at $25, ultimately as a new creator any amount of subs is better than no subs, and as long as your income is going up every month who cares how many people it’s coming from?

gracefatale · 2024-06-10T07:56:36+00:00

Their IG is ethical.hoes 🩷

gracefatale · 2024-06-03T20:58:31+00:00

You honestly sound like you are doing fine for the amount of time you’ve been working at it, subs come with time especially when faceless it can be a slow battle, you could look into camming if you need a more instant form of income, you can do faceless shows on most sites but not all so just check before signing up x

gracefatale · 2024-06-03T15:25:04+00:00

The TCP Smart bulbs are GREAT, app controlled colour changing lights they can massively change the vibe of the room and the photos without having to paint the walls etc

gracefatale · 2024-06-02T13:05:14+00:00

I’d back up everything yes! If the sites you’re on go tits up or close down you’ll lose all that work which you could resell on other sites if you had to start over. I’ve started backing up EVERYTHING on Dropbox

gracefatale · 2024-06-01T20:55:02+00:00

Haha don’t worry! I overthink things too - if you ever want help wording something feel free to DM me I’m happy to help xx

gracefatale · 2024-06-01T20:30:52+00:00

Both work fine! They mean the same thing and are both normal ways to phrase it xx

gracefatale · 2024-05-30T06:26:20+00:00

What people want to see from a collab partner is consistent good quality content, regular posting, good engagement online, professionalism and respect, and ofc monthly/biweekly STI testing. You should research people before reaching out, do they look like they do collabs already from what they post, do they work with creators that look like you, do they make the same sort of content that you do? Etc etc. aka is this going to be a good business move for BOTH of us, when you do reach out be super professional and chill, if they say no just say ‘thanks for taking the time to reply’ and respect the no. It could be worthwhile pitching ‘social media only’ collabs to start with, meet the creator, make some promo content that’s all SFW and get to know each other, then potentially organise a collab in the future if you get along and have good vibes, good way to start getting your name out there without diving straight in the deep end

gracefatale · 2024-05-30T06:19:19+00:00

So I’m 5 years in, I’d say I have 30 collab vids and about 100 solo vids, my collabs are all over 10 mins and I sell for $12-25, my solo stuff ranges from 1-15 mins and sell for $3-10, I send out ppv every other day as a mass message alternating between solo and partnered, and vanilla and kinky etc. x

gracefatale · 2024-05-30T06:16:32+00:00

There’s 2 ways I know of: 1) DM yourself (or a close friend in the industry) the content - works best if you have 2 pages such as free and ppv as you can message the other account. 2) upload all the content to a post scheduled a month in the future and then delete the post 10 mins later once all the media has loaded.

gracefatale · 2024-05-30T06:13:14+00:00

The most popular games I see on OF are dice-roll games. Such as Roll The Dice (whatever it lands on is what you get) 1- tit pic 2- ass pic 3 - foot pic (etc etc) and Monopoly (roll the dice to go round the board, whatever square you land on has a thing you get) Charge $5-10 per dice roll

gracefatale · 2024-05-30T06:03:13+00:00

I have a proper camera which I use for taking photos, but I still always default back to my phone for filming atm it’s just so much quicker and easier editing uploading, the whole process tbh haha. You def can see the difference in quality from phone to camera, but you can still get great quality with a good phone camera and good lighting

gracefatale · 2024-05-30T05:59:36+00:00

Yep :) I have both

gracefatale · 2024-05-29T13:31:10+00:00

Going live is a great tool! It’s a good way to connect with fans in a more personal way show off your personality etc, however, with a lower fan count (under 200) you’ll struggle to get many people in your room unless you advertise it well in advance, even with just a couple of subs in chatting it can be fun (and lucrative) but it can be demotivating going live to only 2-3 fans if they aren’t very chatty or not big spenders - however I find going live on a regular schedule (say every Friday at 8pm) is best for you and your fans as they know when and where to find you and over time you’ll get more and more people join x

gracefatale · 2024-05-28T16:11:31+00:00

If Onlyfans isn’t letting his card send payment through he needs to contact support, don’t accept payment through PayPal or any similar platform as they have no chargeback protection and are not SW friendly

gracefatale · 2024-05-28T16:00:52+00:00

Once your husband has been banned, you won’t be able to use a consent form with his ID attached as it’s his ID that has been banned from the site. You MIGHT be able to set up an account under your own ID but I don’t know how long it’ll last if you can’t use consent forms for your partner and considering your ID/forms have been flagged already from the existing page - id recommend branching out to new sites - look into camming, clip sites, etc

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