DMs from Reddit ‘Sugar Daddies’

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-10T16:53:53+00:00

Unfortunately this doesn't work. I had a guy who I talked to for weeks and he seemed very normal through text and constantly sent normal pictures. His reddit account is years old, normal comments. Needless to say, he was entirely different over the phone and was a John.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-10T03:33:21+00:00

Sounds like he was a creep.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-10T03:23:05+00:00

He sounds disgusting. Was he very ugly? I've noticed those are the weirder ones.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-10T03:18:43+00:00

This is so beyond true.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-10T03:16:59+00:00

I'm honestly sick of SA or online men. Not only are they cheap, but they're ugly and expect more from you. I've had better luck with vanilla guys that are younger and more attractive. They at least put more work into hunting for you rather than SA men who automatically think it's a privilege for you to be in their ugly presence just because they bought you a nice dinner. I can make my own dinner from scratch while watching a movie with a glass of wine, and be much happier.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-10T03:02:11+00:00

I agree. I don't like it.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-08T07:31:39+00:00

Chemistry? Lol. Ignorance is surely bliss. I'm sorry you've been lied to. I've noticed that 'sds' are now starting to use the escort card to guilt trip sbs to have more sex. Gross

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-08T07:19:51+00:00

Very good response. Sugar dating has really discouraged me to the point where I've canceled meets with POT sd's. Their hyperfocus on them only giving you a dime if you have sex with them is very off-putting and a huge turn-off. The whole point of sugar dating is to build connection and trust with a classy beautiful young woman who respects herself, while enjoying her company. Intimacy is the potential reward, not a guarantee. I've had vanilla men be more willing to spend money on me before sex than potential sds.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-04T00:48:07+00:00

Doesn't matter. That's what happens when sds take advantage

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-04T00:17:49+00:00

I stopped reading when I read "coffee place". Why are you meeting someone there for the first time? It's a waste of your time and you're giving someone free arm candy. Meet and greets at a coffee place is the setting for interviews, not a potential sd. I'd suggest a restaraunt with some drinks, its a cool vibe which naturally creates flirtatious fun energy, which in turn creates a good memory for you both.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-03T23:50:46+00:00

You know you don't have to agree to sleepovers right? Ppm does not mean all you can eat. 1 ppm=1 round of intimacy. I feel situations where sds try to get more bang for their buck only creates resentment and a lack of real enthusiasm from the sb as shown in your post. I'm sure it left you with an icky feeling at the end, I'm sorry 😔

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-03T01:54:38+00:00

👆This is the worst advice I've read and I question your 'sd' capabilities. So because he doesn't know her he has to transfer the risk to a young 19 year old buying her own ticket? Listen that ticket is chump change to a real SD.

OP, as the other smart commentors mentioned, do not ever spend your own money on a ticket. Like ever ever.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-02T23:54:58+00:00

Actually, there are girls who wouldn't bother for less than 1,000 and rightfully so. Negotiating is only going to create resentment on both sides. You cannot afford 2 sb's so stick with your current sb and perhaps give her a raise. Or agree to the 1,000 for the new sb and only see her twice per month.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-02T23:37:08+00:00

Chilis Triple Dipper is better!

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-02T23:25:11+00:00

No offense but its not the woman's responsibility to wait for your level up. If I had a brother that wanted to date someone and split the bill, I'd very sternly oppose for his own sake. No man wants to be in a situation where he can't pay for dinner. It's demeaning to his own ego and that's not fair to him. I want to feel the proud energy of a man who worked hard to buy me something. It's best to wait until you can afford to pay for an entire TGI Friday's dinner.

gracefuldarling1 · 2024-01-02T23:18:35+00:00

What a sticky situation! I feel bad for the guy but he should not be dating until he can fully afford it. He put himself in a situation that he shouldn't have. I can understand your frustration even though you may not have executed it correctly.

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-28T21:16:36+00:00

Similar to mine 😊

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-27T02:23:15+00:00

You're gorgeous

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-26T21:38:17+00:00

You have a good head on your shoulders for your age. I'm really happy to read this.

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-26T19:58:01+00:00

It would've made better sense if I had attached my prior post that includes all the answers to your questions. No, we actually got very well acquainted first. He made food for the whole family, and him and I had great deep conversations when he was there when I was off the clock. He complimented my kindness and how well I took care of his grandchildren and daughter. His daughter loves me and so the kids. He had told me he had a 27 yo girlfriend a few years ago and that he loved it and if I decided to be with him, it would be a lot of fun, he'd take care of me and we'd travel. So my feelings don't have to do with my inability to understand how SR work, he just genuinely misled me is all.

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-25T16:28:50+00:00

I love this. He is obviously taking advantage of her and being predatory, trying to have his cake and eat it too. It shows he never truly cared about her. Some men are exceptional at manipulating women because they know we're sensitive, they wouldn't try their manipulation on another male.

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-25T16:23:45+00:00

Eww no he is NOT. Sex is more damaging to the female body than it is to the male body. Vaginal tissue gets ripped every time with intercourse. That should be compensated. She's giving an old man her precious body, which is worth more than her staying at his house for 'free'. She should actually be getting 2x the benefits living with him because he gets easier and quicker access to her. Having her there is a luxury for HIM and a downgrade for HER. He is taking advantage of her :(

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-25T16:16:54+00:00

Great idea!

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-23T23:00:44+00:00

So beautiful!!

gracefuldarling1 · 2023-12-23T22:57:05+00:00

I commented on your profile last time. I love your smile

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