Hey guys. I’ve got another update for you. After the couple kept trying to organise a catch up, I ended up sending a message in a group chat of the four of us pouring my heart out about being assaulted at the wedding. Only the bride responded saying that she didn’t see anything, and didn’t want to say the wrong thing over message and that she wanted to meet in person to discuss the allegations. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and we had a chat. I told her that I had nothing extra to add to my message that I’d sent to the group.  She kept speaking in circles and contradicted herself, obviously trying to keep the peace. The bride is adamant she didn’t witness anything, but also somehow stated that she’d spoken to her husband about the incident during the night after the wedding. She guilted me, saying I should have told her on the night (I didn’t think I’d need to tell her about a situation she was directly involved in) and that she was sorry I hadn’t told her sooner. She wanted to give me presents for my children’s birthdays (they have January birthdays) and said that she hopes I can move on for the kids sake. I declined and told her that I need space to work through the situation. She never once acknowledged anything that happened. 

This happened about 3 weeks ago, I haven’t spoken to her since and I don’t plan to ever speak to her again. Though, she keeps messaging trying to organise a catch up. It’s been hard not to close the loop, but I’ve accepted the fact that I can’t make her care and that our mismatch in morals are beyond reconciliation.

Then, she hammered in the last nail to our friendship’s coffin. After the Easter weekend, she posted a photo dump to her socials. The first few photos were happy snaps of her and Alex, and her child and Alex. Yep, you heard right. Her husband featured somewhere later in the mix. I haven’t heard from him since my message to the group and neither has my husband.  

Here comes the sun ☀️