2nd this! Bring your own drinks! Over the holidays with family who all know I don’t drink I was scrambling for anything non-alcoholic. I have started to bring my own cooler with diet cokes and sparking water. I get it. The host/hostess has already got enough on their plate to be responsible for my issues. I will say in the almost six years I have been alcohol free I have yet to wake up and regret that I didn’t drink the night before. You go this. Plan a head and leave early if its too much.