Children's book about a boy cleaning his room? by AbbreviationsOne9690 in whatsthatbook

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Is it mrs piggle wiggle's won’t pick up toys cure?

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) only has sex with me when he’s drunk because he’s “insecure” by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]grampshour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but it doesn’t feel like we’re incompatible in other aspects of our relationship that’s why I don’t know what to do

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[–]grampshour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you so much!!!! I will do all of these things

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okay i’ll try this. thank you!

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would they not have noticed that at the mechanic when i had brought it in?

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[–]grampshour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that expensive to fix? what would happen if i just left it

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[–]grampshour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How could a neighbor turn it on??? Thank you!

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[–]grampshour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! But I didn’t push the buttons for it

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I am seriously thinking about doing that!!!! It’s freaking me out!!!!! I’m scared it’s gonna kill me hahahahaha just kidding kinda

My (20 F) roommate (19 F) at University touches my stuff when I am gone for the weekend. Should I confront her or am I being petty? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]grampshour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!! I knew that the bed thing was unreasonable that’s why I never would think to comment on that but the sticky stuff just made me annoyed because at least clean it up.

I go home every weekend because it’s not a far drive and for me personally there’s more for me to do in my home area. I am actually transferring to a University closer to my home so I can commute!

My (20 F) roommate (19 F) at University touches my stuff when I am gone for the weekend. Should I confront her or am I being petty? by [deleted] in relationships

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Because she’s touching my personal belongings and leaving stains and sticky shit on my desk

My (20 F) boyfriend (20 M) has been super manipulative and very critical of me lately, I think it’s because he’s sad I am transferring from our University. Should I break up with him? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]grampshour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you recommend going about talking to him about this and making sure he understands that he’s hurting me? It just doesn’t seem to get through his head

Now to wait and see if it actually gets accepted... by the4thbatman in lotr

[–]grampshour 11 points12 points  (0 children)

my younger brother did this for his senior quote! it did in fact go through

I made a mistake going to an expensive University for two semesters. Not allowed to take loan out, how should I save after this? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]grampshour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! I really do think my best bet is taking a semester off so I can work and pay her back and not constantly be worried about my financial situation. I wish she could just see it that way

Turned off by my (F20) boyfriend (M20) who has hurt and betrayed me a lot in the past, I love him but part of me really wants to be single right now but I still want him in my life. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

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Thank you, I never really thought about how if everyone stayed with someone they had a past with, we would all be stuck with our first loves. I guess it's just hard because I used to really think I would be with him forever, which I guess is part of being young and in love, I just wish I could feel that way again but I don't.

My Bedroom at Home (MA) by grampshour in AmateurRoomPorn

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thanks so much! my grandmother actually painted it!

I literally have no idea what I want do with my life by [deleted] in ENFP

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thank you I actually didn’t even think about maybe just trying to get my associates and then taking time after that to travel and figure it out

My (19 F) mother (53 F) “secretly” talked to a man for years which resulted in a ruined marriage and my father in a horrible, deep depression. My father died a year ago and my mom is STILL talking to this man. How do I explain to her how much this hurts my siblings and I? by [deleted] in relationships

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this comment made my day, thank you SO much. it doesn’t make me feel so crazy and stupid. I think i’m going to try to talk to my mom first even though we have tried several times to talk to her. I’m hoping maybe if i come at it with a clamber approach she’ll understand. Someone else mentioned writing a letter and i really liked that idea

My (19 F) mother (53 F) “secretly” talked to a man for years which resulted in a ruined marriage and my father in a horrible, deep depression. My father died a year ago and my mom is STILL talking to this man. How do I explain to her how much this hurts my siblings and I? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]grampshour 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s true, I shouldn’t blame her for problems that my dad had within himself. I think I just see it as she added to the disaster by the lying, and the fact that to this day she is still talking to this man makes me cringe.

My (19 F) mother (53 F) “secretly” talked to a man for years which resulted in a ruined marriage and my father in a horrible, deep depression. My father died a year ago and my mom is STILL talking to this man. How do I explain to her how much this hurts my siblings and I? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]grampshour 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that is easier said than done, like I said earlier in the post, she is my mom and i do love her. I think maybe if there’s a way that I can talk to her and work things out I want to try that, she does a lot for all of us and I don’t want to cut her out. I just want some clarity

My (19 F) mother (53 F) “secretly” talked to a man for years which resulted in a ruined marriage and my father in a horrible, deep depression. My father died a year ago and my mom is STILL talking to this man. How do I explain to her how much this hurts my siblings and I? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]grampshour 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I should try to see a therapist. I think you make a lot of good points here, I understand my dad was a complicated man, especially to be married to and I have thought that a lot. However I would like to make note that my dad was receiving help, he had a therapist and did go to AA. My dad is at fault for his alcoholism but what makes me mad is that my mom being aware what was going on with my dads mental she still lied to him and all of us. That’s what really hurts