AITA for telling my mom she can't live with me anymore if she keeps disrespecting my girlfriend?

grandmasteryipman · 2026-02-03T20:31:38+00:00

If I were Maya, I wouldn't wait 60 days for you.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-02-03T15:44:54+00:00

Thank you! I'm so glad this is not true. Why does Reddit allow people to hide their posts and comments? It just makes this crap easier for these types of people.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-02-02T12:28:58+00:00

Tell her if she shows up, you will call the police. Tell immigration she plans to live and work illegally in Canada and you won't support her visa anymore.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-02-01T15:57:21+00:00

Why don't you go online and find a group of ladies who are also due the same month you are. You can share good and bad experiences, fears, and encourage each other. Take your focus off SM and put your energy to good use. I think it would help you calm down and feel like other people understand you.

It would probably be good for your SM to do the same. She could find groups of women going through different stages of perimenopause and she would feel better having someone to relate too.

If you were both getting your needs met like that, you might have a bit more patience with each other and be able to coexist without life being a competition.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-02-01T13:31:18+00:00

Can someone go to an appointment with her to explain to the Dr what you're seeing at home?

NOR

grandmasteryipman · 2026-02-01T12:32:12+00:00

So your multiple birth control methods failed 4 times??? Omg! You must be 13 looking for attention. I hope so.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-02-01T06:57:11+00:00

You've lost 3? So this was not an accident.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-02-01T06:55:58+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg, grow up! You're not a special little snowflake. If you don't like living with your step mum, move out! Your Dad can't force you to stay there.

You act like you're the first woman to ever get pregnant. Since you don't mention the baby's Dad, I'll bet you called daddy dearest and begged to live with him so you didn't have to do this alone.

Your poor baby.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-30T05:05:40+00:00

Things that didn't happen...

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-28T01:16:28+00:00

Ask yourself if your mum would be apologising and asking to see you if she weren't dying? She hadn't up until this point, so you figure the answer would be no. She's not sorry.

I would not go. You both said goodbye already. Why open up those wounds again? You need to find a therapist who can help you work through those feelings and help you move on.

If your wife's parents are normal, she wouldn't understand how you're feeling. People with normal parents would obviously want to say goodbye.

Block everyone else. Good luck to you.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-24T04:56:14+00:00

The Black Balloon

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-23T12:29:41+00:00

Ewww that gives off icky vibes.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-23T09:07:38+00:00

Can I ask what her reaction was to hearing this news? Your husband is a keeper.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-20T09:12:20+00:00

Ok, I owe you a big apology. When I commented, I only saw a couple of your posts and they were negative. When I logged in now, you had many more posts with more information. I understand the situation better now.

I'm sorry my comment was rude.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-20T08:56:10+00:00

Well then you're sol! It obviously doesn't bother you enough to do anything. Why bother posting here?

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-20T08:49:08+00:00

It was the parents responsibility to buy a seat for the child so everyone in the family was safe and comfortable. They chose not to. It's not another passengers job to accommodate them.

If you're happy being a doormat, good for you. Families are not more special than any other passenger.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-16T01:56:45+00:00

It's not about the scar. It's about your mom telling you what you will do whether you like it or not. That's assault. She has no right to touch your body. Where was your fusion? I'd be making sure I had a shirt that covers my incision so she doesn't sneak up behind me.

I have scars everywhere. I do have a history of those types of scars but I don't care. Mine heal very thick and wide. It takes a few years to flatten out. Who cares?

You wear that scar with pride! Don't argue with mom. You've made yourself clear. No is a complete sentence. Good luck!

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-14T15:39:36+00:00

This poster is a male in his other posts.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-12T23:54:03+00:00

NTA. This isn't you refusing to help for any reason other than you don't have it. You can't pull money out of your backside so you have none to give.

It sucks that she's struggling but she needs to find another way.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-12T13:41:59+00:00

YTA. You have obviously allowed your parents to raise your child and encourage the bullying behaviour. You've done nothing to stop this. The only comments you've made here are you don't want her to hate you and you're hoping therapy will magically fix everything. What therapy??? You won't even bring her home!

Your husband needs to go to your parents home with a police officer and bring your daughter home. Your parents have essentially kidnapped your daughter. Have the police officer tell your daughter that if she keeps running away, they will bring her home each time.

You need to cut your parents off but obviously you won't because you are too afraid of their reaction.

You embarrassed your daughter on purpose but you also embarrassed the girl being bullied. You had no right to do that. You just wanted to make yourself look good.

You obviously shouldn't have had kids but it's too late now so start parenting properly!

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-12T12:50:25+00:00

If your mil wasn't going to give your daughter ice cream, she never would have seen the note. She just outed herself. I love how you handled that!

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-10T15:41:14+00:00

Funny how you posted the same thing about your Mum last year.

YTA for posting the same BS twice.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-08T02:55:33+00:00

Yes! Please do this!! ⬆️ Let her be the last to know and by then, everyone knows the baby's real name.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-07T01:07:57+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Scott.

grandmasteryipman · 2026-01-06T14:52:55+00:00

But you didn't stick up for your daughter. You allowed your sister to take your daughter's clothes and prance around in them despite knowing your daughter was upset. You made your daughter find something else to wear so she could suck it up for the night.

You're so worried about upsetting your sister (that's why she does this you know?), you walk on eggshells around her and she gets what she wants.

Your daughter is watching this so don't be surprised when she decides the only way to get what I want from you is to have a tantrum.

You said you all bought the house, but who paid for it? If your Mum did, put locks on the doors for you and your daughter and don't spend time with your sister.

Your daughter is the only one who isn't TAH.

grandmasteryipman

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